In the past, people used to get married and then work on building their careers, homes, and families together. Nowadays, many want to accomplish all these things before getting married. They prefer to have a good job, a house, savings, and a stable life first. This shift means that couples might miss out on the bond that comes from building a life together. When two independent individuals, who are used to doing things alone, come together, it can be harder for them to create a strong and lasting relationship. The focus on individualism can harm marriages.