There are certain risks you should never ignore once you're married and have kids.

I can't fathom ever accepting an invitation to and event which will warrant me taking a boat to a location without life jackets and divers on board.

Those canoes they call boats are death traps without proper safety fittings or features. If a canoe capsizes, it's game over.

I watched the video where the man Mr John Paul Odonwodo asked the canoe driver to slow down yadayadayada. Who does that? On top water??? I mean

I would've insisted on going back to shore.

Unfortunately, his reckless actions have left his wife a widow and his three kids fatherless.

It's a tragic and avoidable loss.