Misunderstanding is something you can never do without in a relationship/marriage. What makes it different is knowing how to handle them when they come.

Most people who do not know how to handle misunderstandings in their relationship/marriages have become victims of divorce and heart breaks. If you can master how to handle misunderstandings when they come, be rest assured that you're going to enjoy a beautiful relationship.

📌LISTEN:
The first thing to do during a misunderstanding is not shouting back at your partner, the first thing to do is to listen. A lot of persons listen to reply but that is wrong. You must listen to understand. Even when they are screaming on top of their voices, relax, be calm and just listen.

📌DON'T RETALIATE:
It is often said that two wrongs cannot make a right, so when they are shouting at you don't retaliate, just keep your cool. When you are calm, you take control of the atmosphere; you tend to study your partner's emotions and hear them clearly.

📌DON'T USE HARSH WORDS:
Yes, it's normal to want to be heard but tame your tongue. Please be mindful of your words while trying to be expressive. Do not say anything out of anger that would make the situation worse. Take time to explain with a language that's soft and tender.

📌SHUT THEM UP WITH LOVE:
Bear in mind that the bone of contention is not to win over your partner but to grow and move forward. There are certain things you will do to your partner that would keep them shut immediately.

Brother Mekus, call Sister Testi sweet names; it will not remove the fire in you. Tell them they don't look good when they are angry, hug them and tell them you love them, stare into their eyes and say they have beautiful eyes or beautiful lips, just say something sweet to them. It won't cost you anything.

📌APOLOGIZE IF YOU'RE THE ONE AT FAULT: Pride is a major dream killer of many beautiful relationshios. If you're at fault, kindly and respectfully apologize and move on. Holding on to.
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