What's one thing you're grate for today?

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Living with purpose means aligning your actions with your values and goals. It's about finding meaning and direction in life.

Discover your why. Reflect on your strengths, passions, and values. Set goals that ignite your soul.

Live with intention. Prioritize your time and energy. Stay focused and resilient.

Make a positive impact. Pursue your passions. Live with purpose.

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Again, being too loyal to a boyfriend will stop you from finding your husband.

Of all the mistakes you'll make in life as a woman, never announce to the public that you have a boyfriend.

That's one reason many women never get married because what the world hears when you say that is, 'This is the man I'm currently sleeping with.' And this makes you look like 'used goods.'

It's like men are using you in turns with every new relationship.

The cheat code is never to announce a man until he has gone the whole distance of marrying you.

A relationship is an unrealized goal, and as a rule, we don't announce unrealized goals.

Leave those types of mistakes to fools and those who don't understand the game of life or the fate of women.

Generally, getting a boyfriend is the easiest thing on earth. If you're carrying meat, how hard is it to get a dog to eat that meat?

You're highly valuable as a woman, and every man wants to access you for nothing. That is, to become your boyfriend.

It's actually harder to make one dollar than it is to get a man. To make a dollar, you may need to put in some effort. But to get a man? Just respond to one inbox or remove a contact from your block list.

You wouldn't announce to the world that you have made one dollar and you feel rich. Would you? So, why are you announcing something cheaper than a dollar?

A man posting you on his social media is an act of possession or telling other men to keep off from his food. But you announcing him? That's just giving recognition to someone who hasn't earned it yet.

You're not in the same place as men. Don't be naive.

Tour biological clock is more sensitive with a definite deadline, which men don't have.

A man having a girlfriend or wife boosts his social status and opens doors for him.

For you, a boyfriend closes doors. It disappoints other men when you say you're taken. So you should only say it when you're actually taken.

One day, you'll be told that your body count is too high just because you announced your previous boyfriends. But the men won't be told that.

You're not in the same place as a man.

Your body is seen as a highly coveted sexual commodity. A man's is not.

And in case you're feeling special that a man is sleeping with you, let me remind you that men have been known to sleep with anything. Women, other men, animals, inanimate objects like mattresses. They will relieve themselves with anything, whether it's their own hands, lotion, or soap.

Have you noticed that the mentally ill or homeless women on the streets have babies?

You should keep your body to be enjoyed in marriage. That's the only way to attract honour.

If you continue giving yourself to brokers under the favourite delusion of many women, 'We're in a serious relationship,' that's why you'll be seen as 'already used up.'

This is the point: stop giving titles to enquiries. When you're operating your business, do you give your goods to every customer who comes making enquiries? No. You wait until someone pays the price.

Do the same in your dating. Everything before marriage is enquiries. Never take them too seriously.

Attend to them all.

Date them all.

Give your goods to none. Not your body. Not titles. Not your reputation.

Again, keep your goals low-key until they're permanent. Including relationships.

(©️ Benjamin Zulu Global)

Believe in yourself and your abilities. Every great achievement starts with a single step, and that step is often the hardest. Keep pushing forward, even when the journey gets tough. Your hard work, resilience, and determination will pay off. You are capable of achieving amazing things. Keep going!

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You already know more than you think. Sometimes we convince ourselves that we need a better plan before we take action. But the truth is, most of the time, it’s not the plan we’re missing. It’s the trust in ourselves to follow through.

Think about it. You’ve made decisions before without having everything perfectly mapped out. You learned, adapted, and grew because you trusted your ability to figure it out. That’s how growth happens—in real time, with real choices.

It’s not about having every detail locked in place. It’s about being confident enough to move forward despite the unknowns. Each small step teaches you something new, guiding your next move.

The more you practice trusting yourself, the more natural it becomes. You realize that perfection isn’t the goal. It’s progress, learning, and staying committed that matter.

Take a breath, make the choice, and know you’re capable. You’ve got this.

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EPISODE 3:

I didn’t sleep after that. How could I? My own husband—my supposed protector—was conspiring against me. Each word from his phone call replayed in my mind like a cruel echo.

"She won’t suspect anything."

But I did. And now, I had to find out what they were planning before it was too late.

By the time Emeka drifted into a deep sleep, his phone was still beside him, unlocked. I hesitated. I had never invaded his privacy before, but this wasn’t about privacy. This was about survival.

Slowly, I reached for the phone and scrolled through his call logs. The last call had been with Mama. My fingers trembled as I clicked on their messages.

Mama: She’s taking too long. It’s time for the next step.

Emeka: I’ll talk to her, but we have to be careful. She’s already suspicious.

Mama: Then stop wasting time. The girl is ready. We can’t delay any longer.

I froze.

"The girl is ready?"

I scrolled up frantically, my breath hitching. Then, I saw it. A name I didn’t recognize—Chisom.

There were pictures. A beautiful young woman, smiling shyly, dressed in traditional attire. My stomach twisted.

"They had already chosen my replacement."

A wave of nausea hit me, and I barely made it to the bathroom before emptying my stomach. The realization crashed over me like a tidal wave—I was being erased.

Wiping my mouth, I gripped the sink, staring at my reflection in the mirror. My eyes were red, my face pale. The woman looking back at me wasn’t the same Nkechi who had walked into this marriage full of hope.

"I can’t stay here."

But leaving wasn’t just about packing a bag and walking away. I knew my family would never support a divorce. And Emeka’s family? They wouldn’t let me leave quietly.

I had to be smart.

Taking one last look at my sleeping husband, I made a silent vow.

"You think I don’t suspect anything, Emeka? Watch me."

I was going to find out everything they were planning. And when I did, I would make sure I was the one who decided how this story ended.

TO BE CONTINUED...✍️✍️✍️

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1. Don't share your past, especially the number of persons you've slept with. This is particularly important for womén. He can use it against you.

2. Don't share your financial details with a person who is lazy and always has eyes on your money. They will borrow from you and try to control the money. If you argue, they will use "I am the head of the family" to intimidate you.

3. During courtship and introduction, if there's anything your family member said concerning your partner, except it was a de@th threat or sign of real jealousy, don't share it. That statement could have been a joke, and that family member could have forgotten about it. If you tell your partner, they might seek revénge directly or indirectly.

4. Don't share your friend's secret with your partner. It can cause your partner to start undermining your friend. When your friend shares a secret with you, keep it to yourself, except it requires intervention, then you can share.

5. Don't share your family weaknesses, including any personal struggles of your siblings and parents, with a partner, unless they are mentally mature enough. Otherwise, they might use it against you.

6. Don't share your experiences with your ex when you're with your new partner. They will feel bad, especially if you try to compare them.

7. Don't share bád things you've done in the past with your partner, unless they're emotionally mature enough to handle it. Otherwise, they may change their opinion of you.

8. If your partner lacks financial management, don't tell them the amount of money in your account. They won't rest until they drain it.

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Site engineer k!lled in Delta by employees after discovering he had large sum of money in his account

The police in Delta state have began an investigation after a site engineer identified as Chigozie Udalor was k!lled by his employees after discovering he had a lot of money in his account.

In a statement released, the spokesperson of the command, SP Bright Edafe, said on December 12, 2024, one Hyacinth Nnalue reported to Akwu-kwu Igbo division that his cousin Chigozie Udalor had been missing since the 10th of December 2024. He also stated that the said Chigozie was his site manager at his fish pond in Bod camp Akwukwu Igbo community.

Edafe said upon receipt of this information, the DPO commenced an investigation and later transferred the case to the State Criminal Investigation Department. Edafe said the state Commissioner of Police, CP Olufemi Abaniwonda, directed the DPO Ekpan CSP Aliyu Shaba to carry out a technically driven investigation. The DPO detailed operatives who commenced an intelligence-led investigation, on 31st March 2025, they arrested one David Tacho ‘m’ who attempted to withdraw money from the victim’s account through his phone and also arrested Daniel Orshio who took part in the murder.

‘’Investigation also revealed that David Tacho is a brother to one Victor Tacho who conspired with Pius Daniel, (both presently at large) and Daniel Orshio, and murdered the victim. The two suspects are presently in custody. Preliminary investigation revealed that all four suspects were employed by the deceased who is the site engineer, but they discovered he had some money in his Moniepoint account and they conspired, used a hammer to hit him on his head, tied him and buried him in a shallow grave at the site. Two of the suspects David Tacho and Daniel Orshio are presently in custody while two other suspects Pius Daniel and Victor Tacho are still on the run. The body of the deceased has been exhumed and awaiting autopsy while efforts to arrest the other two suspects are ongoing.’’ Edafe said

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EPISODE 2

I could barely sleep that night. My mind replayed the meeting over and over like a nightmare on repeat. The looks on their faces, the venom in their voices—bãrren women, other options.

Emeka lay beside me, his back turned, his breathing steady. How could he sleep so peacefully after what happened today? I turned to him, staring at his motionless form in the dim light of our bedroom.

"Emeka," I whispered.

He didn't respond.

I placed a hand on his shoulder and shook him gently. "Emeka, are you awake?"

A sigh escaped his lips before he turned slightly. "What is it, Nkechi?" His voice was tired, irritated.

"What happened today… why didn't you defend me?" My voice cracked, but I fought to keep my emotions in check.

His silence was deafening.

"Emeka," I pushed further, my pulse quickening. "Do you agree with them?"

He sat up abruptly, running a hand over his face. "Nkechi, this is how things are done in my family. You knew this."

My breath caught. "Knew what? That my womb would be a topic for discussion? That my worth would be measured by a male child I haven’t even had yet?"

He exhaled sharply, shaking his head. "You're overreacting."

I stared at him in disbelief. "Overreacting? Your mother practically told me that if I don’t give birth to a boy, I have no place here!"

He didn’t deny it. He just lay back down, turning his back to me again.

The lump in my throat burned. I wanted to scream, to shake him, to make him understand the weight of what was happening. But I did nothing. I just lay there, eyes wide open, feeling more alone than I had ever felt in my life.

Then, just as sleep threatened to pull me under, I heard something.

Emeka's voice.

It was faint, almost a whisper.

I turned slightly, realizing he was on the phone.

"Yes, Mama," he murmured. "I understand… I'm on your side. But I can’t rush her… No, no, she won’t suspect anything. She thinks I’m neutral."

The room began to spin. My heart pounded so loudly I feared he would hear it.

I squeezed my eyes shut, trying to steady my breathing.

I was married to a man who was pretending to be my ally while plotting against me with his family.

My hands clenched into fists beneath the covers.

I had to get out of here. But first, I needed to know exactly what they were planning.

TO BE CONTINUED.... ✍️✍️✍️✍️

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