Food
Rent
Drink
Transport
Clothes
Shoes
School fees
Healthcare
If any of the above are still pending, don’t buy
iPhone
Wristwatch
Perfume
Send babe money
Go clubbing
Lend money
When you buy luxuries before necessities, you will experience difficulties. Life is easy if you put your needs before your wants, and hard if you put wants before needs.
THE ART OF SPEAKING TO YOUR WOMAN
1. Be consistent. Don't speak good to her only when you want pleasure or sex
2. Words are powerful to a woman. Don't withhold your words of love saying "You are a man who loves through actions". Love her in words and deeds
3. Don't speak to her as if you are ordering her. Suggest, request, kindly ask; it makes her feel special and enjoy doing it for you
4. Be a man of details. Pay attention to the information she shares, show her you care
5. Find a special name to call her "Hun, Darling, Queen" a name that shows how special she is to you, not just the mother of your children
6. Don't shout at her. It scares her yet you are her protector
7. Don't talk to her as if you look down on her. If she doesn't know about a subject matter, lovingly teach her
8. Talk to her about her emotions, dreams, life, jokes; not just chores and responsibilities. She wants to connect with you
9. Talk to her as often as you can; don't deprive her of someone to talk to. She will feel rejected
10. Ask for her thoughts about the matter. Make her feel involved in your life
©️ Chioma
@everyone
THE ART OF SPEAKING TO YOUR MAN
1. Avoid talking tough to him. Don't make him feel you are out to compete with him
2. Don't speak harsh at him and justify you do so because you are angry. In your anger, do not damage
3. Give him room and time to talk. Don't dominate the conversations. Dialogue, not monologue
4. Be consistent. Don't be the woman who speaks great things to him and the same who insults him. Your insults will cancel all the good you have spoken to him in the past
5. Check your tone. You might be saying the right thing but with the wrong tone. Sometimes your message is not well received because of your delivery
6. Don't give silent treatment, it pushes him away
7. Don't make demands or give instructions as if you are his boss, he will switch off.
8. Maintain warmth in your conversations, it makes him stay in the talk
9. Talk with him things that stimulate his mind, that makes him learn; it makes him excited to talk to you. Mature talk, not drama
10. Never make a conversation be about praising another man whilst demeaning him; be it your ex, your father, your pastor, a celebrity or friend
©️ Chioma
@everyone
Dear fellowers,
In every circumstance, whether joyous or challenging, remember that God is actively working for your good. Keep your faith burning brightly, for it is in these moments that it truly shines. Trust in His divine plan, knowing that He never fails to fulfill His promises. Even when the path seems unclear, hold fast to the assurance that God's purposes are unfolding. Embrace the journey with hope and confidence, for He is faithful to bring beauty out of ashes.
#faithingod
#trusthisplan
#divinepurpose
©️ ChiomaJesusCares 🥰
*MORNING INSPIRATION*
Nobody can take your place, you are irreplaceable, very unique and so special, you are fearfully and wonderfully made. Abba Father made the world for you to explore all the things that are in it. Take control of what rightfully belongs to you. Abba loves you so much, that is why He sent His only begotten Son to come and offer Himself as a sacrifice so that you can be saved from eternal damnation. He cares about you and will do everything possible in order to secure a place for you in eternity. You are blessed. May Abba lift you to your next level in life and redirect your steps for good in Jesus’ Name. Amen.
INSPIRED BY ROMANS 8:32.
HAPPY SUNDAY!