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*BEFORE YOU SLEEP*
Abba Father is in control, your problems are nothing before Him. He has everything figured out. You are going to be alright, those heart piercing storms are under His control, they are not going to consume you, don’t worry. You are about to bid farewell to your dry seasons, everything is coming together for your good. Abba is going to launch you into another season where you are going to have everything in plentiful supply. Keep your faith in Him and don’t give up, He has done it before and He is going to do it again for you. May ABBA catapult you into seasons where you will lack nothing in Jesus’ Name. Amen.
INSPIRED BY 1 PETER 5:7.

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DEAR WIFE
5 WAYS TO MAKE YOUR HUSBAND SUCCEED


1) PRAY WITH/FOR HIM

One of the things every real wife does for her husband is to pray for and with him

Pray for him to Succeed in the office,
Pray for him not to fall into Temptation
Pray for his safety
Pray for his Ministry
Pray for his Health

God honors the Prayer of a Wife over her Husband.

Don't allow him pray alone
Don't allow him carry the fire alone.

BURN WITH HIM 🔥 🔥 🔥 🔥

Hello, Dear Wifey,
Is not only to get pregnant and born shildren
You can see vision for your husband,
You can give him prophecies

Don't allow Dstv or Zee World kidnap you

Don't be spiritually complacent and leave the praying and fasting only for your husband,

As he's speaking in tongues, be replying in tongues, let the whole house be on fire..
God punish the Devil.

Let him see in you a spiritual companion.
And see how that improves your home and his spiritual life.

2) BLESS HIM

Proverbs 18:21 "Death and life are in the power of the tongue: and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof."

This is almost a similar as praying for him, but still different.

Instead of laying curses on him,
Instead of abusing him,
Heap blessings upon his head daily,

Draw him close to your bosom and bless him as a Parent blesses the Child.

Kiss his forehead and decree over him "because you Married Me, you will not fail, you will talk where your mates are talking, our children will be great Men and Women"

3) ENCOURAGE HIM

When things are rough, a Wife should never be amongst those to crucify, lambaste or talk discouragingly to her Husband.
Even if he messed up.

Remember what Lot told his wife "has thou become like the the foolish Women"

Don't be like the foolish Woman

Give your Husband words of encouragement daily
Even if he's not meeting up, believe me, he's making effort, he knows he's falling short, he feels the pain, he may not talk, please encourage him.

Tell him you see his sacrifices daily,
Tell him you appreciate his efforts towards you and the kids.

4) MOTIVATE HIM

Be his cheer leader
Cheer him to success

Tell him you believe in him,
Tell him he can do it, even if you don't believe, never break his will to try,
Tell him he will make it in life
Tell him he will be a great Man,
Tell him you saw the great potentials, that's why you married him.

So he's secured a major achievement,
And he seems to be relaxing,

Fire him Up once more

Do not allow your husband become complacent
Tell him, "honey you can do even better"
Be his hunger to do more.
Let him take one look at you and receive motivation to go out there and conquer the World.

Let him leave the house feeling like nothing is impossible for him.

5) RUN WITH HIS VISION

A HELP MEET must understand that her duty involves helping her MATE actualize his vision.

You are there in his life to help him succeed, to work and walk with him,
Just as he is in yours to do same for you.

Don't become his competition
Don't become his contender

A lot of women today are fighting their husbands, fighting their husbands dreams.

When he says let's do THIS, you say let's do THAT
When he says YES, you say NO.
When you keep opposing him because you think he is dumb, or he offended you, or whatever

Are you his HELP MATE or HELL MATE?

Don't be used by the devil to bring down your Husband's Vision.

Some Women have pulled their husbands down from GRACE to GRASS,
Some Women have destroyed their husbands Ministry, chased his business friends away, even gone to His office to fight and make problem,

Some Men have lost their Jobs and helpers because of the Woman they married.
Don't be that Wife

When he brings ideas, when he brings plans, support him.
Even if it will inconvenience you temporarily even if it means you don't get the iPhone you asked for. Support Him.

Many Women agreed to plans that discomforted them, plans they didn't like, made sacrifices to make their Husbands who they are today.
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AND DON'T FORGET TO CHASE YOUR DREAMS TOO.
Your Individual Success is also a part of the equation..
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Some Women pull DOWN their Husbands
Some push theirs UP

"Besides Every successful Man, is a Woman who contributed Immensely."
Start Contributing to making your Man Great today.


#marrywell
#relationshipheartbits

MARRIAGE IS FOR PEACEMAKERS

1. Marriage is for two people who would rather maintain their love than win arguments against each other

2. Marriage is for people who know when not to speak till tempters cool

3. Marriage is for emotionally stable people who are able to not act or say irrational things just because they feel like it

4. Marriage is not a place for wars, settling scores and tit for tats, but a place for seeking solutions

5. Marriage is not a place that adds to your stress but a safe haven, where you run to after a hard day

6. Marriage is for two people who choose not to react to issues but to respond to them. Reacting is self seeking, instant and not thought through the consequences; responding is looking out for the best interest of the both of you and being prudent

7. Marriage is a place where anger is seen as a normal human emotion but that anger gets neutralized with love so that it doesn't become a threat

8. Marriage is not a place for shouting matches, insults, violence and the throwing of glasses; but a place for mature conversations, mutual understanding and the willingness to learn

9. Marriage is a place where the two prefer to talk about sensitive issues when they are both calm, not defensive

10. Marriage is a place for constantly making up, not going to bed mad at each other

11. Marriage is a place for exercising patience, the two don't put pressure on each other

12. Marriage is a place for kisses, hugs, gifts and words of affection that bring down walls

13. Marriage is a place where pride and ego is put down and the two are caring enough to reach out to each and initiate reconciliation when they have wounded each other

14. Marriage is a place of perspective. You don't destroy your entire marriage that you have built all these years just because of a misunderstanding

The strongest marriages are made of husbands and wives who are peace makers. Do you love peace enough to give it to your spouse? Blessed are the peace makers for they shall be called children of God.


@everyone

20 WAYS TO BEFRIEND YOUR PARTNER:

I decided to write this list because someone asked " How can I be a friend to my Lover?"

A friend is someone who understands you and adds value to your life.

The popular saying says" Marry your friend or Befriend anyone you marry".

1. Speak to her softly instead of shouting.

2. ‍Always make her smile and crack jokes for her. Stare at her face and Smile, if she asks why smiling. Tell her she's beautiful; laugh when she cracks jokes or says something funny. Frowning always is not spiritual.

3. Walk a distance together.

4. Hang out together at eateries.

5. Watch movies( wrestling, football, and Christian films) and play games together.

6. Fulfill purpose by going into ministration together.

7. Write love letters to each other.

8. Read books together.

9. Read the Bible together.

10. Pray together.

11. Sing praises and worship together.

12. Shop for her.

13. Speak your dialect.

15. Call her sweet names ( Honey, Gem, Gold, my heartbeat, my sugar...)😂😂😂

16. Coauthor a book.

17. Cook for her.

18. Seek her advice and follow it as the spirit leads.

19. Discuss your plans with her.

20. Keep your money with her. Support him financially.

Above all thy getting, befriend her, and watch things work for you in your relationship.

Marriage is too long for you to journey with your boss, not a friend.

It's absurd for you to be in a relationship and still have opposite sex Bestie somewhere else.

A relationship thrives when you start with friendship!

Marry your friend!

Befriend your Lover!

Marry your talking mate!

Marry your purpose mate!

Marry your spiritual mate!

Marry your genotype mate! (You should marry someone your genotype is compatible with. AA should marry AS. AA should marry SS)

Marry your academic mate!

Marry your playmate!

#too_late_for_your_relationship_to_fail
#be_friend_your_lover
#be_his_or_her_closest_friend

Finally,
Prov 27:17 said "
Iron sharpeneth iron; so a man sharpeneth the countenance of his friend"

WHY IT IS IMPORTANT TO SOLVE ISSUES QUICKLY IN MARRIAGE

1. To enjoy sleep. Sleep is a struggle when you are not in good terms with your spouse

2. To prevent your spouse or yourself from being tempted into an affair. Most affairs start in moments of offense, when you are mad at your spouse or your spouse is mad at you and an outsider gives you a shoulder to lean on OR gives your spouse a shoulder to lean on

3. To prevent a small issue from growing into bigger issues or complications. Any unresolved matters morphs into huge threats that will be harder to solve

4. To show your spouse that you value what you two have. How much you value your marriage will be seen in how quick you solve matters

5. For the sake of peace at home. The home is the one place you should come to find peace. The biggest impediment to peace at home is unresolved issues

6. For the sake of the children. You cannot parent children in a healthy way if you two are at war

7. To prevent you two from drifting apart. Each day that goes with you two not talking to each well you two drift apart

8. To train your reconciliation muscle. Reconciliation is a practice you constantly need to teach yourselves if you want to have a strong marriage

9. To focus on more important things such as investing together, raising children well, touching lives and fulfilling purpose. You can't do all these in an environment of offense

10. To prevent misinterpretations and assumptions. When you two are not in good talking terms, you read too much into each other's words and actions, assuming the worst, thus giving birth to new issues

11. To prevent yourselves from resenting each other. As long as you two don't reconcile, you are giving room to resentment. Soon, you will both start to despise each other and offense will lead to more offense

12. To protect your intimacy. Your emotional, physical and sexual intimacy will be destroyed if you two remain mad at each other. Offense brings loneliness, sexual frustration, alcoholism and porn addiction. Many married are looking for escapes because their marriage has issues. Sometimes your spouse will not want to make love to you, not because he/she is having an affair but because of offense

13. So that you two can fulfil the vision of your marriage. You will not walk in agreement if you don't see eye to eye. Don't destroy everything you two have built and were meant to build

14. So that you two don't end up divorcing due to irreconcilable differences
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