SAD REALITY. Most of us grew up like this; Mixed together with our cousins, but now as adults, we no longer talk! Everyone now has levels, rich ones avoid calls from the poor and the poor tend to distance themselves to save their pride. Family gatherings are just events to track who's doing better in life and who's failing within families. It's no longer a matter of strengthening unity. We burried the people that used to keep the families together. Family isn't what it used to be. There was a time when you could go to your grandmas house to eat , hang out with the family and have a good time. Now everybody chooses who they want to deal with. Aunt's and uncles choose which kids to be proud of. Brothers and sister treat friends more like family. cousins talk about each other. Grandparents spend time with certain grandkids. Now We only meet and behave like a family when there's a funeral.... Ooh I almost forgot we also work so hard so that just incase we call our relatives they won't refuse to pick thinking that we want to beg from them... Some relatives ask you why you don't call or talk to them but they also forget to ask themselves if their own children call or talk to your parents as well ...🤐🤐🤐 God please save our generation. #familylovechallenge #familyReels #letlovelead #onelove

Julia Roberts once said: "When people leave you, let them go. Your destiny is never tied to anyone who leaves you, and it doesn't mean they're bad people. It just means their role in your story is over." These words remind us of a truth that we often forget - that not everyone who comes into our lives is meant to stay forever. People come into our lives for different reasons, to teach us lessons, to share experiences or walking with us through certain seasons. But when they leave, it's important to recognize that their part in our journey has been fulfilled, and our paths must now diverge. Holding on to those who are meant to leave only delays your growth and prevents you from moving into the fullness of your own destiny. It's not about rejecting or blaming the person who leaves, but rather understanding that your story continues beyond the chapter. Sometimes their exit gives way to new opportunities, deeper connections, and the discovery of new aspects of yourself. Letting go isn't always easy, but it's essential to moving on to the next stage of your life. This does not diminish the importance of the relationship you once shared. Every encounter has value, shaping who you are and helping you grow. But when someone leaves, it's a sign that your journey is no longer lining up. Their departure doesn't make them a villain in your life story, just someone whose role has come to a natural end. When you release the weight of the departed, you create space for the people meant to stay and enrich your life in meaningful ways. Giving up is not an act of giving up; it's an act of acceptance - embracing the flow of life, understanding that not everyone is meant to accompany you to every destination. Remember, your destiny is yours. No one can take it from you, and no one else can walk the path that has been laid out for you. So when someone leaves, trust that it is for your highest good. They were part of your story, but now the rest is for you to write, and it holds even greater promise. 🖤🕊️🤍 DISCLAIMER: I hereby declare that I do not own the rights to this post. credits belong to the respectful author No Copyright Infringement Intended. #cttocredittotherightfulowner #ctto #toxicrelationship #selfworth #healing