The Impact of Nollywood Dramas on Today’s Society

There was a time when watching Nollywood dramas was an event in itself. Back then, we gathered in groups, rented movies in parts—Part 1, Part 2, Part 3, sometimes even up to Part 7! Despite the constant battle with NEPA’s unavailability of electricity, we found ways to stay up late into the night, captivated by the gripping stories unfolding on our screens.

These films brought entertainment, suspense, and unforgettable characters. But they also carried something deeper—subtle and sometimes dangerous messages that have, over the years, left a lasting impact on society, especially the youth of today.

From Entertainment to a Dangerous Mindset

In those days, some of the most popular Nollywood storylines revolved around money rituals. Many of us can still remember vividly—scenes of desperate young men visiting herbalists, sacrificing human lives, and then emerging as wealthy businessmen overnight. The actors who played these roles—many of whom are now famous—were so convincing that, for some viewers, fiction blurred into reality.

While Nollywood filmmakers may have intended these movies as cautionary tales, the repeated depiction of ritual killings as a shortcut to wealth seems to have had the opposite effect. Instead of serving as warnings, they planted dangerous ideas in the minds of many young people.

Today, we are living with the consequences.

A Generation That No Longer Believes in Hard Work

I recall a disturbing moment from my school days. I was in my hostel when a fellow student boldly declared, "There’s no legitimate way to make money!" He went on to say, "I go do rituals," as if it were just another career choice. This was a young man, full of potential, already convinced that success could only come through dark and illegal means.

His mindset wasn’t formed overnight. It was shaped by years of watching and hearing the same narrative—money rituals work, and the wealthy must have used them. How did we get here? When did we stop believing in education, skills, and entrepreneurship?

The Role of Nollywood and Social Media

If television had such a powerful influence on past generations, imagine what social media is doing to today's youth. Unlike back then, when we only had movies on VHS or CDs, now, social media bombards young people with content 24/7. And the glorification of quick money, fraudulent lifestyles, and rituals has only worsened.

Many young people no longer aspire to be doctors, engineers, or business owners. Instead, they want to be “big boys” overnight, no matter the cost. And who do they look up to? The influencers flaunting suspicious wealth, the artists singing about blood money, and even movies that still glorify the same themes from the past.

What Can Be Done?

The government must take a stand. Just as traditional media was once regulated, social media must now be monitored to prevent the spread of harmful content.

Nollywood must take responsibility: Filmmakers need to tell stories that promote hard work, innovation, and legitimate success rather than reinforcing the idea that money rituals are the fastest route to wealth.

Social media regulation: Not censorship, but content control to prevent the glorification of fraud and ritual killings.

Educating the youth: Schools and families must play their part in reshaping the narrative. We must teach young people that success comes from persistence, education, and genuine effort—not blood money.


Conclusion

Nollywood has entertained us for decades, but it has also shaped mindsets in ways we never imagined. Now, social media is amplifying those messages even further. If we do nothing, future generations will grow up in a society where hard work is a joke and crime is a normal part of life.

It’s time to change the narrative. It’s time to show that wealth built on sweat and integrity is the only wealth that truly lasts.

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Apologizing doesn’t mean you’re weak—it means you value your relationship more than your ego. It takes strength to admit when you’re wrong, to acknowledge your mistakes, and to take responsibility for the hurt you may have caused. Pride may tell you to stay silent, to wait for the other person to make the first move, but love and wisdom teach that healing begins with humility.

A sincere apology has the power to mend broken trust, ease tension, and bring people closer. It’s not just about saying “I’m sorry” but also about showing through actions that you truly regret your mistake and are willing to change. Holding on to grudges, refusing to apologize, or letting ego take control can damage even the strongest relationships.

In marriage, friendships, and family, the ability to apologize and forgive is essential. No one is perfect, and disagreements will happen, but what matters most is how we handle them. A moment of pride can cost years of happiness, while a moment of humility can restore love and peace.

The strongest relationships aren’t the ones without conflict, but the ones where both people are willing to work through their mistakes with understanding, patience, and respect. Apologizing doesn’t make you lose—it allows love, trust, and connection to win.

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When a man cheats in a relationship or marriage, the consequences can be deeply damaging. Here are some of the negative effects:

1. Loss of Trust

Cheating shatters trust, which is the foundation of any strong relationship. Once broken, trust is difficult to rebuild, leading to insecurity and constant doubt.

2. Emotional Pain and Betrayal

The partner who is cheated on experiences deep emotional pain, betrayal, and heartbreak. This can lead to anxiety, depression, and a loss of self-esteem.

3. Damage to the Relationship or Marriage

Infidelity often leads to frequent arguments, emotional distance, or even the end of the relationship. Even if the couple stays together, the bond may never be the same.

4. Negative Effects on Children (If Married)

If children are involved, they may suffer emotionally from the tension, separation, or divorce that follows. They may also develop trust issues in their future relationships.

5. Loss of Respect and Reputation

A man who cheats risks losing the respect of his partner, family, and friends. His reputation may suffer, affecting both his personal and social life.

6. Emotional Guilt and Regret

Many men who cheat eventually experience guilt and regret, especially if they see the pain they caused. This can lead to stress, anxiety, or even self-destructive behaviors.

7. Risk of STDs and Unwanted Pregnancies

Cheating increases the risk of contracting sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) or causing unintended pregnancies, which can bring additional complications to his life and relationship.

In the long run, cheating often causes more harm than temporary pleasure. Staying faithful and communicating openly can help prevent these painful consequences.

Treating a lady with respect and care is essential in any relationship. Here are five of the best ways to do so:
1. Respect Her – Value her opinions, listen to her thoughts, and treat her as an equal. Respect her boundaries, choices, and personal space.
2. Communicate Openly – Be honest and transparent in your conversations. Pay attention to her feelings and express yours with kindness and understanding.
3. Show Appreciation – Recognize and appreciate the little things she does. Compliment her genuinely and make her feel special through thoughtful words and actions.
4. Support Her Dreams – Encourage her ambitions and be there for her in both successes and challenges. Show that you believe in her potential and are willing to help her achieve her goals.
5. Be Loyal and Trustworthy – Build trust by being reliable, keeping your promises, and staying committed. A strong foundation of trust strengthens any relationship.

You're on a plane that's about to crash, what do you say to the person sitting next to you?
survived a plane crash, I would tell him these things:

I Put your passport, phone and money in your pants pockets - you will need your ID on the ground.
Count the number of lanes to the emergency exits - both in front and in back - and be ready to exit from either side (actually, count again because you already did it when you first sat down, right?).
Put your glasses inside your shirt (they will fly off on impact).
Wear some extra clothes (sweatshirt or jacket) to stay warm afterwards or to have first aid supplies.
Put essential medicines in your pockets.
Forget your carry-on luggage - you can't take it.
Brace yourself for impact, keep your arms between your legs (elbows hurt a lot when they hit the armrests)
Only 10% of crashes (or less) are fatal, so there is a good chance.
On the ground, move away from the plane and follow the instructions of the emergency personnel - they will be as confused as you are.

"Life is 10% what happens to you, and 90% how you react to it. Stay strong."

Don't rush your self stay calm.