She said, “Don't call the doctor, I want to fall asleep peacefully, with your hand in mine.” He told her about the past, how they met, their first kiss. they didn't cry, they smiled. They didn't regret anything, they were grateful. Then she repeated softly, 'I love you forever!' He returned her words, gave her a soft kiss on the forehead. She closed her eyes and fell asleep peacefully with her hand in his. Love is really all that matters because everyone comes into this world with nothing other than love and leaves with nothing other than love. Think about it. Profession, career, bank account, our goods are just tools, nothing more. Everything stays here. So just love….Love those that really love you. Love, as if there was nothing more important in your life.
HOW TO ENJOY SEX IN MARRIAGE...
A lot of singles are trying sex out to see if they are sexually compatible before heading the altar. Is that the only reason you are getting married? To have sex till you die? Is there nothing serious, sensible, life transforming in your head than smooching, grabbing, groping and "oooshing", " uuuushing" all the time? Any way, that is by the way.
You don't need to see the size of his penis before marriage neither should you test to see or feel the tightness of her vagina before marriage, that's disgusting! Premarital sex is disgusting! What you need is ask few questions and do a little probing, that should give you an idea. For instance, if she had been sexually active or had a child in her past, you should know that place won't be the same as a virgin's! If she has never had sex, you need to do some research on google! May you not chase the wrong vagina to your grave!
Premarital sex is dangerous! Not as cool as Hollywood makes it looks! If it were so so sweet without any consequence, there won't be so much heart break, heart attack, dirty stories, cheating, infidelity, divorce, suicide and untimely death in the movie industries.
Back to the topic above. What makes you really enjoy sex in marriage is EMOTIONAL INTIMACY, DEEP FRIENDSHIP and OPENNESS. If those are not in place, no matter how gigantic his penis is or how narrow and glued together her vagina is, you won't enjoy sex. Its the reason some men married to virgins are not sexually satisfied in marriage and are seeking love making else where!
What makes you enjoy sex is emotional bonding, how deeply you care about each other, the respect you have for each other, kindness, softness, patience, gentleness, thoughtfulness. Being free around each other. Hiding no secret from each other. The ability to be completely opened and be yourself without shame or guilt. The deep assurance that you are loved, needed, wanted, totally adored makes you want to totally love, abandon yourself to your partner, make love and deeply enjoy love making. That's how to enjoy sex IN MARRIAGE.
When a woman feels loved, completely accepted, listened to and understood, she eagerly yields to love making, gets very passionate and enjoys every bit of it. When a man is highly respected, loved, understood and cared for, he wants to make love to his wife every now and then but when real love, deep intimacy and openness is not in place, frigidity, sexual pain, sexual frustration, erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation and all sorts of sexual problems are the result.
Trying sex out before marriage is stupid! What for? Are you a sex machine? Are you a whore? Are you a sex toy? How many men do you want to submit your body to for experiment before you get married? The more you sleep around, the more your vagina expands, the more they dump you because no man wants to marry a woman with wide, over used, non elastic, over stretched vagina, please, close your legs and get whole!
I pity guys who plug their thing into anything in the name of testing! How many girls do you what to have sex with in your life time? Some are going about with accursed penis! Stolen glory! Empty life because they have emptied all their usefulness into demon possessed vaginas! I heard the stories of ladies who sell sperm. You use condom and they go away with their trophy, if it is the lady who use the condom, same. Bye bye to your glory forever!
If you are dating someone who has been sexually active in the past, you seriously need to pray. Some are carrying serious curses on their heads especially the ones who impregnates ladies, reject and abandon them to suffer! The curse of a pregnant woman in labour is not good my brother. Oh no!!! You don't want to experience it, trust me! Keep your penis in your trousers and save yourself from unnecessary trouble!
There is absolutely no need testing sex before marriage. If you are compatible in other areas you will also be compatible sexually.
I and hubby never had sex throughout courtship but we were the best of friends, gist a lot, completely free and open around each other and sex in marriage is so hot, passionate and super delicious!
Wait for sex in marriage, no where you are rushing to. You still have about 70 years of your life to enjoy sex, why the rush???
You will not pick the wrong partner in Jesus name!
Thanks for reading. God bless you. Cheers!
Dear Fellowers,
Don't waste your energy living a fake life just to impress others.Instead, embrace your authentic self and be true to who God made you to be. Remember, genuine happiness and fulfillment come from being real, not from trying to meet others' expectations. Work hard to improve yourself, to grow, and to become the best version of who you truly are.
Let your actions and choices reflect your authenticity, and inspire others to do the same.
#bereal
#authenticitymatters
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*MORNING INSPIRATION*
You are not lucky, but rather, you are blessed. All the things you see in your life today didn’t come as a result of luck, Abba Father intentionally brought them into your life because He has blessed you. Nothing happens by chance, whatever you see around you has been preplanned to happen. Enjoy your moments, it’s your time, enjoy grace, it’s your season, enjoy Abba’s blessings, you are into another winning chapter of your life. Abba is going to take you farther than this, He is taking you higher and higher until your enemies concede defeat. May you be lifted to that level you have always been dreaming about and may your weekend be blessed and prosperous in Jesus’ Name. Amen.
INSPIRED BY 3 JOHN 1:2.
*"For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother's womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well." - Psalm 139:13-14 (NIV)*
This verse reminds us that God has intricately designed and crafted each individual, making them unique and wonderful. It encourages us to embrace and appreciate the way God has created us, recognizing our inherent worth and value. By being true to ourselves and living authentically, we honor and acknowledge the beauty of God's creation within us.