As we step into this new week, may God fill our hearts with courage and wisdom. Guide our steps, strengthen us in challenges, and help us shine his light in all we do.

Amen 🙏🏾

Enjoy your weekend fellas...!!!

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Again, being too loyal to a boyfriend will stop you from finding your husband.

Of all the mistakes you'll make in life as a woman, never announce to the public that you have a boyfriend.

That's one reason many women never get married because what the world hears when you say that is, 'This is the man I'm currently sleeping with.' And this makes you look like 'used goods.'

It's like men are using you in turns with every new relationship.

The cheat code is never to announce a man until he has gone the whole distance of marrying you.

A relationship is an unrealized goal, and as a rule, we don't announce unrealized goals.

Leave those types of mistakes to fools and those who don't understand the game of life or the fate of women.

Generally, getting a boyfriend is the easiest thing on earth. If you're carrying meat, how hard is it to get a dog to eat that meat?

You're highly valuable as a woman, and every man wants to access you for nothing. That is, to become your boyfriend.

It's actually harder to make one dollar than it is to get a man. To make a dollar, you may need to put in some effort. But to get a man? Just respond to one inbox or remove a contact from your block list.

You wouldn't announce to the world that you have made one dollar and you feel rich. Would you? So, why are you announcing something cheaper than a dollar?

A man posting you on his social media is an act of possession or telling other men to keep off from his food. But you announcing him? That's just giving recognition to someone who hasn't earned it yet.

You're not in the same place as men. Don't be naive.

Tour biological clock is more sensitive with a definite deadline, which men don't have.

A man having a girlfriend or wife boosts his social status and opens doors for him.

For you, a boyfriend closes doors. It disappoints other men when you say you're taken. So you should only say it when you're actually taken.

One day, you'll be told that your body count is too high just because you announced your previous boyfriends. But the men won't be told that.

You're not in the same place as a man.

Your body is seen as a highly coveted sexual commodity. A man's is not.

And in case you're feeling special that a man is sleeping with you, let me remind you that men have been known to sleep with anything. Women, other men, animals, inanimate objects like mattresses. They will relieve themselves with anything, whether it's their own hands, lotion, or soap.

Have you noticed that the mentally ill or homeless women on the streets have babies?

You should keep your body to be enjoyed in marriage. That's the only way to attract honour.

If you continue giving yourself to brokers under the favourite delusion of many women, 'We're in a serious relationship,' that's why you'll be seen as 'already used up.'

This is the point: stop giving titles to enquiries. When you're operating your business, do you give your goods to every customer who comes making enquiries? No. You wait until someone pays the price.

Do the same in your dating. Everything before marriage is enquiries. Never take them too seriously.

Attend to them all.

Date them all.

Give your goods to none. Not your body. Not titles. Not your reputation.

Again, keep your goals low-key until they're permanent. Including relationships.

(©️ Benjamin Zulu Global)

I pray for you this morning.
May the Lord help you to sustain the valuable relationship that you have built over the years,
May those relationships that are useful to you not be despised or neglected,
May the relationship that are putting food on your table not be cut off from you,
May you enjoy a new relationship that will make you acceptable among the princes and nobles of the land in Jesus mighty name. Good morning and do have a stress-free weekend.

*"You cannot get everything you want at once, but that's okay. Life's beauty lies in its unfolding. Every step, every stumble, and every success is a part of your journey. Focus on the progress, not the pace. Celebrate small wins, and don't be too proud to ask for help. Remember, every great achievement started with a single step. Be patient, stay consistent, and trust that your hard work will pay off. You are building a life, not ordering a meal. Enjoy the process, and know that your time will come."*

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EPISODE 1:

I think I made a mistake choosing Emeka. Or maybe the mistake was marrying into this family. If only I had seen the signs earlier… if only I had listened to my instincts. But love has a way of blinding you, making you believe that all will be well.

I should have known something was wrong when my mother-in-law smiled too much at our wedding. That was not the smile of a mother welcoming a daughter—it was the smile of a queen who had just acquired a servant.

Now, here I sit in the middle of a family meeting, feeling like a criminal on trial. I glance at Emeka, silently begging him to say something, anything. But he stares at the floor like a child being scolded.

“Nkechi,” my mother-in-law’s voice is sharp, dragging my attention back to her. “It has been two years, yet we see no sign of a child. What exactly is the problem?”

I swallow hard. I had heard the rumors—how women in this family are expected to bear a son within the first two years of marriage. But I never imagined they would actually summon me like this, like a disobedient child.

“I—I believe God’s time is the best,” I stammer.

My sisters-in-law scoff. One of them, Ifeoma, leans forward. “That’s what barren women say.”

A cold chill runs through my spine. Barren? The word stings like acid. I look at Emeka again, hoping, praying for him to say something. But he remains silent. His mother smirks, as if enjoying my humiliation.

“Listen carefully, Nkechi,” she continues. “In this family, a woman secures her place by giving birth to a male child. If you cannot do that, then we must consider… other options.”

A suffocating silence fills the room. I feel my heartbeat in my throat. Other options? What does she mean?

“Let’s give her a little more time,” Emeka finally speaks.

For a second, relief washes over me—until I realize his voice lacks conviction. He is not defending me. He is only delaying their judgment.

As I sit there, my mind screams at me. Run, Nkechi. Run while you still can.

But where will I go?

TO BE CONTINUED...✍️✍️✍️✍️

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Today- Saturday.
Breakfast was Indomie and Egg.

Daughter :I'm Hungry!

Me: *Trying to enjoy my browsing time* Alright what do you want to eat?

Daughter : Indomie!

Me: What?! You had that for breakfast! and also remember you said your aunty in school said u cannot eat what u had as breakfast for lunch!😀😀😀😀

Daughter : laughing out loud 😀😀😀.

Me: angry angry you're going to fast till evening

She thinks she is smart 😀😀.

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My husband's friend came around sometime ago. He came to drop something for my husband and when he was leaving, he asked that I give him a hug cuz he was feeling lonely, his wife travelled abroad earlier this year.

I reluctantly gave him the hug because he's a friend. I realised he hugged me too tight and when he was about freeing himself, he kissed me on the lip and rushed out.

I didn't say anything, I tried to understand why he did it but later just ignored. I thought he might just be missing his wife.

Some days later he sent me a text asking if I reported him to my husband and I said NO.

From there, he started texting regularly and passing by the house to give me gifts and other things when he knows hubby isn't around.
We both lost control one time and had s3x. I always knew it could happen so I tried to keep my distance but it eventually happened and I couldn't control it.

I wasn't happy we did what we did, though I enjoyed it, I admit that. S3x with hubby was honestly one way. The change was fun.

I knew it may continue and I didn't want that. I am not a cheat so I told hubby's friend not to pass by anymore and I didn't want to see his face ever again.

He wouldn't listen, he sent a lengthy text explaining how he enjoyed it and how much he has come to love me, even more than his wife.

I don't know why but, I started feeling like I loved him too. I ignored him, but I couldn't boldly ask him to stay away from me. I entertained him when he comes around often so the s3x thing started happening again and this time, more regularly.
We spent time together and even went on trips sometimes. We had s3x in his car and at hotels on several occasions.

Beginning of this November month, he started withdrawing. He wouldn't call, text or ask to see me as usual. I asked why and he said his wife was coming home this December and he wanted to end things with me before she does, adding that he didn't want to have any issues with his wife nor my husband later.

As I type this, he has blocked and ghosted me completely. I feel hurt, used and played by my husband's bosom friend. I really don't know how to pay him back for what he has done to me. He has disrespected and taken advantage of me. How am I supposed to handle this? What do I do to hurt him back?