• Again, being too loyal to a boyfriend will stop you from finding your husband.

    Of all the mistakes you'll make in life as a woman, never announce to the public that you have a boyfriend.

    That's one reason many women never get married because what the world hears when you say that is, 'This is the man I'm currently sleeping with.' And this makes you look like 'used goods.'

    It's like men are using you in turns with every new relationship.

    The cheat code is never to announce a man until he has gone the whole distance of marrying you.

    A relationship is an unrealized goal, and as a rule, we don't announce unrealized goals.

    Leave those types of mistakes to fools and those who don't understand the game of life or the fate of women.

    Generally, getting a boyfriend is the easiest thing on earth. If you're carrying meat, how hard is it to get a dog to eat that meat?

    You're highly valuable as a woman, and every man wants to access you for nothing. That is, to become your boyfriend.

    It's actually harder to make one dollar than it is to get a man. To make a dollar, you may need to put in some effort. But to get a man? Just respond to one inbox or remove a contact from your block list.

    You wouldn't announce to the world that you have made one dollar and you feel rich. Would you? So, why are you announcing something cheaper than a dollar?

    A man posting you on his social media is an act of possession or telling other men to keep off from his food. But you announcing him? That's just giving recognition to someone who hasn't earned it yet.

    You're not in the same place as men. Don't be naive.

    Tour biological clock is more sensitive with a definite deadline, which men don't have.

    A man having a girlfriend or wife boosts his social status and opens doors for him.

    For you, a boyfriend closes doors. It disappoints other men when you say you're taken. So you should only say it when you're actually taken.

    One day, you'll be told that your body count is too high just because you announced your previous boyfriends. But the men won't be told that.

    You're not in the same place as a man.

    Your body is seen as a highly coveted sexual commodity. A man's is not.

    And in case you're feeling special that a man is sleeping with you, let me remind you that men have been known to sleep with anything. Women, other men, animals, inanimate objects like mattresses. They will relieve themselves with anything, whether it's their own hands, lotion, or soap.

    Have you noticed that the mentally ill or homeless women on the streets have babies?

    You should keep your body to be enjoyed in marriage. That's the only way to attract honour.

    If you continue giving yourself to brokers under the favourite delusion of many women, 'We're in a serious relationship,' that's why you'll be seen as 'already used up.'

    This is the point: stop giving titles to enquiries. When you're operating your business, do you give your goods to every customer who comes making enquiries? No. You wait until someone pays the price.

    Do the same in your dating. Everything before marriage is enquiries. Never take them too seriously.

    Attend to them all.

    Date them all.

    Give your goods to none. Not your body. Not titles. Not your reputation.

    Again, keep your goals low-key until they're permanent. Including relationships.

    (©️ Benjamin Zulu Global)
    Again, being too loyal to a boyfriend will stop you from finding your husband. Of all the mistakes you'll make in life as a woman, never announce to the public that you have a boyfriend. That's one reason many women never get married because what the world hears when you say that is, 'This is the man I'm currently sleeping with.' And this makes you look like 'used goods.' It's like men are using you in turns with every new relationship. The cheat code is never to announce a man until he has gone the whole distance of marrying you. A relationship is an unrealized goal, and as a rule, we don't announce unrealized goals. Leave those types of mistakes to fools and those who don't understand the game of life or the fate of women. Generally, getting a boyfriend is the easiest thing on earth. If you're carrying meat, how hard is it to get a dog to eat that meat? You're highly valuable as a woman, and every man wants to access you for nothing. That is, to become your boyfriend. It's actually harder to make one dollar than it is to get a man. To make a dollar, you may need to put in some effort. But to get a man? Just respond to one inbox or remove a contact from your block list. You wouldn't announce to the world that you have made one dollar and you feel rich. Would you? So, why are you announcing something cheaper than a dollar? A man posting you on his social media is an act of possession or telling other men to keep off from his food. But you announcing him? That's just giving recognition to someone who hasn't earned it yet. You're not in the same place as men. Don't be naive. Tour biological clock is more sensitive with a definite deadline, which men don't have. A man having a girlfriend or wife boosts his social status and opens doors for him. For you, a boyfriend closes doors. It disappoints other men when you say you're taken. So you should only say it when you're actually taken. One day, you'll be told that your body count is too high just because you announced your previous boyfriends. But the men won't be told that. You're not in the same place as a man. Your body is seen as a highly coveted sexual commodity. A man's is not. And in case you're feeling special that a man is sleeping with you, let me remind you that men have been known to sleep with anything. Women, other men, animals, inanimate objects like mattresses. They will relieve themselves with anything, whether it's their own hands, lotion, or soap. Have you noticed that the mentally ill or homeless women on the streets have babies? You should keep your body to be enjoyed in marriage. That's the only way to attract honour. If you continue giving yourself to brokers under the favourite delusion of many women, 'We're in a serious relationship,' that's why you'll be seen as 'already used up.' This is the point: stop giving titles to enquiries. When you're operating your business, do you give your goods to every customer who comes making enquiries? No. You wait until someone pays the price. Do the same in your dating. Everything before marriage is enquiries. Never take them too seriously. Attend to them all. Date them all. Give your goods to none. Not your body. Not titles. Not your reputation. Again, keep your goals low-key until they're permanent. Including relationships. (©️ Benjamin Zulu Global)
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  • I pray for you this morning.
    May the Lord help you to sustain the valuable relationship that you have built over the years,
    May those relationships that are useful to you not be despised or neglected,
    May the relationship that are putting food on your table not be cut off from you,
    May you enjoy a new relationship that will make you acceptable among the princes and nobles of the land in Jesus mighty name. Good morning and do have a stress-free weekend.
    I pray for you this morning. May the Lord help you to sustain the valuable relationship that you have built over the years, May those relationships that are useful to you not be despised or neglected, May the relationship that are putting food on your table not be cut off from you, May you enjoy a new relationship that will make you acceptable among the princes and nobles of the land in Jesus mighty name. Good morning and do have a stress-free weekend.
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  • As I am enjoying this Friday night I am thinking about the comment from Bill Gates how AI will impact our workweek

    According to some post I saw, he says it will lead into 2 to 3 day workweek! Instead of machines ”stealing our jobs”.

    Anyhow, here in Finland, for example our former Prime Minister Sanna Marin has been proposing us 4 day workweeks.

    I am all for that, too!

    Some of my reasons are:

    1) Having one office day available to take care of things, go to offices (bank, doctor etc) run errands… To name few.
    2) One day would be for rest and rejuvenation
    3) A day to meet people as we have distanced from one another - Especially after the covid crisis

    There is so much loneliness. And also, the day to gather could include outdoor or other activity for body as well. As our health overall seems to be declined.

    As much as I am totally pro work woman having my career and enjoying what I do with and for people and businesses - I feel that we should not live for working but work for living.

    My long ago passed Grandma Selma used to say when electric appliences showed up that ”That is the time we should rest”.

    Now instead of all the electronics benefitting us our days run out with them. Not good!

    So let us keep working towards more pleasant life worth of living for all - And let us never let our work define our worth or happiness in life!


    With love,
    Juudit

    #heartwoman #heartteam #leadthroughlove #leadership #ai #valutok
    As I am enjoying this Friday night I am thinking about the comment from Bill Gates how AI will impact our workweek According to some post I saw, he says it will lead into 2 to 3 day workweek! Instead of machines ”stealing our jobs”. Anyhow, here in Finland, for example our former Prime Minister Sanna Marin has been proposing us 4 day workweeks. I am all for that, too! Some of my reasons are: 1) Having one office day available to take care of things, go to offices (bank, doctor etc) run errands… To name few. 2) One day would be for rest and rejuvenation 3) A day to meet people as we have distanced from one another - Especially after the covid crisis There is so much loneliness. And also, the day to gather could include outdoor or other activity for body as well. As our health overall seems to be declined. As much as I am totally pro work woman having my career and enjoying what I do with and for people and businesses - I feel that we should not live for working but work for living. My long ago passed Grandma Selma used to say when electric appliences showed up that ”That is the time we should rest”. Now instead of all the electronics benefitting us our days run out with them. Not good! So let us keep working towards more pleasant life worth of living for all - And let us never let our work define our worth or happiness in life! With love, Juudit #heartwoman #heartteam #leadthroughlove #leadership #ai #valutok
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  • *"You cannot get everything you want at once, but that's okay. Life's beauty lies in its unfolding. Every step, every stumble, and every success is a part of your journey. Focus on the progress, not the pace. Celebrate small wins, and don't be too proud to ask for help. Remember, every great achievement started with a single step. Be patient, stay consistent, and trust that your hard work will pay off. You are building a life, not ordering a meal. Enjoy the process, and know that your time will come."*
    *"You cannot get everything you want at once, but that's okay. Life's beauty lies in its unfolding. Every step, every stumble, and every success is a part of your journey. Focus on the progress, not the pace. Celebrate small wins, and don't be too proud to ask for help. Remember, every great achievement started with a single step. Be patient, stay consistent, and trust that your hard work will pay off. You are building a life, not ordering a meal. Enjoy the process, and know that your time will come."*
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  • WOMB ON TRIAL

    EPISODE 1:

    I think I made a mistake choosing Emeka. Or maybe the mistake was marrying into this family. If only I had seen the signs earlier… if only I had listened to my instincts. But love has a way of blinding you, making you believe that all will be well.

    I should have known something was wrong when my mother-in-law smiled too much at our wedding. That was not the smile of a mother welcoming a daughter—it was the smile of a queen who had just acquired a servant.

    Now, here I sit in the middle of a family meeting, feeling like a criminal on trial. I glance at Emeka, silently begging him to say something, anything. But he stares at the floor like a child being scolded.

    “Nkechi,” my mother-in-law’s voice is sharp, dragging my attention back to her. “It has been two years, yet we see no sign of a child. What exactly is the problem?”

    I swallow hard. I had heard the rumors—how women in this family are expected to bear a son within the first two years of marriage. But I never imagined they would actually summon me like this, like a disobedient child.

    “I—I believe God’s time is the best,” I stammer.

    My sisters-in-law scoff. One of them, Ifeoma, leans forward. “That’s what barren women say.”

    A cold chill runs through my spine. Barren? The word stings like acid. I look at Emeka again, hoping, praying for him to say something. But he remains silent. His mother smirks, as if enjoying my humiliation.

    “Listen carefully, Nkechi,” she continues. “In this family, a woman secures her place by giving birth to a male child. If you cannot do that, then we must consider… other options.”

    A suffocating silence fills the room. I feel my heartbeat in my throat. Other options? What does she mean?

    “Let’s give her a little more time,” Emeka finally speaks.

    For a second, relief washes over me—until I realize his voice lacks conviction. He is not defending me. He is only delaying their judgment.

    As I sit there, my mind screams at me. Run, Nkechi. Run while you still can.

    But where will I go?

    TO BE CONTINUED...✍️✍️✍️✍️

    #storytelling #virals #trendingpost #catalystboost #story #storytime
    WOMB ON TRIAL EPISODE 1: I think I made a mistake choosing Emeka. Or maybe the mistake was marrying into this family. If only I had seen the signs earlier… if only I had listened to my instincts. But love has a way of blinding you, making you believe that all will be well. I should have known something was wrong when my mother-in-law smiled too much at our wedding. That was not the smile of a mother welcoming a daughter—it was the smile of a queen who had just acquired a servant. Now, here I sit in the middle of a family meeting, feeling like a criminal on trial. I glance at Emeka, silently begging him to say something, anything. But he stares at the floor like a child being scolded. “Nkechi,” my mother-in-law’s voice is sharp, dragging my attention back to her. “It has been two years, yet we see no sign of a child. What exactly is the problem?” I swallow hard. I had heard the rumors—how women in this family are expected to bear a son within the first two years of marriage. But I never imagined they would actually summon me like this, like a disobedient child. “I—I believe God’s time is the best,” I stammer. My sisters-in-law scoff. One of them, Ifeoma, leans forward. “That’s what barren women say.” A cold chill runs through my spine. Barren? The word stings like acid. I look at Emeka again, hoping, praying for him to say something. But he remains silent. His mother smirks, as if enjoying my humiliation. “Listen carefully, Nkechi,” she continues. “In this family, a woman secures her place by giving birth to a male child. If you cannot do that, then we must consider… other options.” A suffocating silence fills the room. I feel my heartbeat in my throat. Other options? What does she mean? “Let’s give her a little more time,” Emeka finally speaks. For a second, relief washes over me—until I realize his voice lacks conviction. He is not defending me. He is only delaying their judgment. As I sit there, my mind screams at me. Run, Nkechi. Run while you still can. But where will I go? TO BE CONTINUED...✍️✍️✍️✍️ #storytelling #virals #trendingpost #catalystboost #story #storytime
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  • I have a new one for you: #TGIM!!!!

    Why?

    Because it is in our hands to start new week and every new day in positive terms.

    As much as I love weekends, vacations and sparetime - It all would be nothing without workdays and weeks.

    It is during the workdays we sow so that we can reap the fruits and enjoy that time off.

    There has to be a balance and there has to be joy - In both!

    If there is no joy in your work with what you do you most likely suffer 5 days a week and often that dissatisfaction shadows the weekends as well.

    Ask yourself - Is this really life worth of living?

    So today it is your chance to change your life. Think about what you could do that would bring you more joy?

    That would make you wake up with happiness and gratitude each and every day?

    Or truly really most of the days.

    Think about and make this slogan something that you will use every Monday from your heart:

    Thank God it’s Monday! ☀️🙏🏻☀️

    So how do we make this day and week count?


    💛 Juudit

    #heartwoman #heartteam #leadthroughlove #ThankGoditsMonday #ValuTok
    I have a new one for you: #TGIM!!!! Why? Because it is in our hands to start new week and every new day in positive terms. As much as I love weekends, vacations and sparetime - It all would be nothing without workdays and weeks. It is during the workdays we sow so that we can reap the fruits and enjoy that time off. There has to be a balance and there has to be joy - In both! If there is no joy in your work with what you do you most likely suffer 5 days a week and often that dissatisfaction shadows the weekends as well. Ask yourself - Is this really life worth of living? So today it is your chance to change your life. Think about what you could do that would bring you more joy? That would make you wake up with happiness and gratitude each and every day? Or truly really most of the days. Think about and make this slogan something that you will use every Monday from your heart: Thank God it’s Monday! ☀️🙏🏻☀️ So how do we make this day and week count? 💛 Juudit #heartwoman #heartteam #leadthroughlove #ThankGoditsMonday #ValuTok
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  • Today- Saturday.
    Breakfast was Indomie and Egg.

    Daughter :I'm Hungry!

    Me: *Trying to enjoy my browsing time* Alright what do you want to eat?

    Daughter : Indomie!

    Me: What?! You had that for breakfast! and also remember you said your aunty in school said u cannot eat what u had as breakfast for lunch!😀😀😀😀

    Daughter : laughing out loud 😀😀😀.

    Me: angry angry you're going to fast till evening

    She thinks she is smart 😀😀.
    Today- Saturday. Breakfast was Indomie and Egg. Daughter :I'm Hungry! Me: *Trying to enjoy my browsing time* Alright what do you want to eat? Daughter : Indomie! Me: What?! You had that for breakfast! and also remember you said your aunty in school said u cannot eat what u had as breakfast for lunch!😀😀😀😀 Daughter : laughing out loud 😀😀😀. Me: angry angry you're going to fast till evening She thinks she is smart 😀😀.
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  • The most important thing is to enjoy your life to be happy, it all that matters 💫💫💫💫💫
    The most important thing is to enjoy your life to be happy, it all that matters 💫💫💫💫💫
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  • Saturday is definitely the best day of the week for me 🤍 Reward and rest after often hectic and demanding workweek

    The moment when I can enjoy my morning coffee ☕️ peacefully and just take things slow and easy.

    I also often enjoy nicer breakfast then or even prepare a small brunch.

    Today I dug out one of my very favorite Moomin mug out of the cupboard. It’s bake in Finnish is ”Rantaelämää” Beach life in English - But I have always called the mug ”Bikini Moomin mug”.

    Now when it is spring here in Finland and the sun is back also the nice sunny bright summery colors and thinks come back to life.

    I also want to share something interesting about this Moomin mug. It was manufactured in 2008. Price then was probably 10€ ($10). Now if you search for it online people have to pay even 100€ ($100) for it!

    Finnish people not only love those Moomin stories by Tove Jansson but collect these Moomin mugs as well.

    I have even sent some out to the States after the live I had with Michele Gunn couple years ago.

    Not only are they nice but they grow in value too.

    Though, no matter the price, some things are never sold in life if you truly love them. So this specific Moomin mug of mine would not be sold even with 100€/$100. 😁

    Anyhow, how do you grow in value as a person and professional? Do you see your value and all that bring on the table? And do you invest in you?

    I hope today you would think about your own value deeply.

    Think how unique you are and what you bring into this World!

    And share with us, if you are courageous enough!


    With love 🧡
    Juudit

    #HeartWoman #HeartTeam #LeadthroughLove #Leadership #Motivation #Inspiration #Encouragement #PersonalDevelopment #MoominMug #Finland #Weekend #Coffee #Valutok
    Saturday is definitely the best day of the week for me 🤍 Reward and rest after often hectic and demanding workweek The moment when I can enjoy my morning coffee ☕️ peacefully and just take things slow and easy. I also often enjoy nicer breakfast then or even prepare a small brunch. Today I dug out one of my very favorite Moomin mug out of the cupboard. It’s bake in Finnish is ”Rantaelämää” Beach life in English - But I have always called the mug ”Bikini Moomin mug”. Now when it is spring here in Finland and the sun is back also the nice sunny bright summery colors and thinks come back to life. I also want to share something interesting about this Moomin mug. It was manufactured in 2008. Price then was probably 10€ ($10). Now if you search for it online people have to pay even 100€ ($100) for it! Finnish people not only love those Moomin stories by Tove Jansson but collect these Moomin mugs as well. I have even sent some out to the States after the live I had with Michele Gunn couple years ago. Not only are they nice but they grow in value too. Though, no matter the price, some things are never sold in life if you truly love them. So this specific Moomin mug of mine would not be sold even with 100€/$100. 😁 Anyhow, how do you grow in value as a person and professional? Do you see your value and all that bring on the table? And do you invest in you? I hope today you would think about your own value deeply. Think how unique you are and what you bring into this World! And share with us, if you are courageous enough! With love 🧡 Juudit #HeartWoman #HeartTeam #LeadthroughLove #Leadership #Motivation #Inspiration #Encouragement #PersonalDevelopment #MoominMug #Finland #Weekend #Coffee #Valutok
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  • Howdy, Valutokers!

    Hope you’re having a fantastic experience here! On Valutok, socializing isn’t just fun - It is rewarding.

    Every like, comment, and interaction brings you closer to earning while doing what you love.

    So keep showing up, keep connecting, and make the most of every moment on Valutok!

    Click on this link https://valutok.com/groups/Creatives to join a Valutok community designed to help you grow and thrive on the Valutok space!

    #Valutok #GetPaidToSocialize #StayConnected #Engage #Earn #Enjoy #EarnWhileYouEngage
    Howdy, Valutokers! Hope you’re having a fantastic experience here! On Valutok, socializing isn’t just fun - It is rewarding. Every like, comment, and interaction brings you closer to earning while doing what you love. So keep showing up, keep connecting, and make the most of every moment on Valutok! Click on this link https://valutok.com/groups/Creatives to join a Valutok community designed to help you grow and thrive on the Valutok space! #Valutok #GetPaidToSocialize #StayConnected #Engage #Earn #Enjoy #EarnWhileYouEngage
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