• Apologizing doesn’t mean you’re weak—it means you value your relationship more than your ego. It takes strength to admit when you’re wrong, to acknowledge your mistakes, and to take responsibility for the hurt you may have caused. Pride may tell you to stay silent, to wait for the other person to make the first move, but love and wisdom teach that healing begins with humility.

    A sincere apology has the power to mend broken trust, ease tension, and bring people closer. It’s not just about saying “I’m sorry” but also about showing through actions that you truly regret your mistake and are willing to change. Holding on to grudges, refusing to apologize, or letting ego take control can damage even the strongest relationships.

    In marriage, friendships, and family, the ability to apologize and forgive is essential. No one is perfect, and disagreements will happen, but what matters most is how we handle them. A moment of pride can cost years of happiness, while a moment of humility can restore love and peace.

    The strongest relationships aren’t the ones without conflict, but the ones where both people are willing to work through their mistakes with understanding, patience, and respect. Apologizing doesn’t make you lose—it allows love, trust, and connection to win.
    Apologizing doesn’t mean you’re weak—it means you value your relationship more than your ego. It takes strength to admit when you’re wrong, to acknowledge your mistakes, and to take responsibility for the hurt you may have caused. Pride may tell you to stay silent, to wait for the other person to make the first move, but love and wisdom teach that healing begins with humility. A sincere apology has the power to mend broken trust, ease tension, and bring people closer. It’s not just about saying “I’m sorry” but also about showing through actions that you truly regret your mistake and are willing to change. Holding on to grudges, refusing to apologize, or letting ego take control can damage even the strongest relationships. In marriage, friendships, and family, the ability to apologize and forgive is essential. No one is perfect, and disagreements will happen, but what matters most is how we handle them. A moment of pride can cost years of happiness, while a moment of humility can restore love and peace. The strongest relationships aren’t the ones without conflict, but the ones where both people are willing to work through their mistakes with understanding, patience, and respect. Apologizing doesn’t make you lose—it allows love, trust, and connection to win.
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  • I once let my pride get in the way of apologizing, and it cost me a great relationship. Have you ever made a mistake in love that taught you an important lesson? Share your experience so others can learn!
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  • *_MORNING* *SHOWER!!!_*
    *PRAYER DEVOTIONAL*
    Shalom! *Child of God,* *according to* *the word of God in* *Rev. 12:11, receive* *grace to overcome* *every* *VISIBLE AND INVISIBLE* *powers of darkness* *working tirelessly to* *bring you down. In* *the name of Jesus* *Christ of* *Nazareth, your matter* *will* *EXPOSE, DISGRACE AND DESTROY* *your* *unrepentant* *enemies* *InJesusName. Jonah* *came out of* *the great fish; Daniel* *came out of* *the Lions den;* *Lazarus came out of* *the grave; you too* *will overcome* *and come out of that* *challenge. Be* *restored, be lifted and* *be blessed* *beyond measure.* *Remain steadfast and* *forever blessed* *InJesusChristName* .
    *MuchLove* ❤️❤️❤️.
    *_MORNING* *SHOWER!!!_* *PRAYER DEVOTIONAL* Shalom! *Child of God,* *according to* *the word of God in* *Rev. 12:11, receive* *grace to overcome* *every* *VISIBLE AND INVISIBLE* *powers of darkness* *working tirelessly to* *bring you down. In* *the name of Jesus* *Christ of* *Nazareth, your matter* *will* *EXPOSE, DISGRACE AND DESTROY* *your* *unrepentant* *enemies* *InJesusName. Jonah* *came out of* *the great fish; Daniel* *came out of* *the Lions den;* *Lazarus came out of* *the grave; you too* *will overcome* *and come out of that* *challenge. Be* *restored, be lifted and* *be blessed* *beyond measure.* *Remain steadfast and* *forever blessed* *InJesusChristName* . *MuchLove* ❤️❤️❤️.
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  • The advice to “just stick to one genre” needs to die already.

    Genre-bending makes stories better. Horror + fantasy? I see you. Magical realism + mystery? I see you. Romance + historical fiction? I see you.

    Let your book be weird. Readers love weird.
    The advice to “just stick to one genre” needs to die already. Genre-bending makes stories better. Horror + fantasy? I see you. Magical realism + mystery? I see you. Romance + historical fiction? I see you. Let your book be weird. Readers love weird.
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  • Valutok send me the women who love to read fantasy and romance. Who have a million hobbies and aren’t afraid to try new things. Send me the women who are new on valutok and bravely posting their content for all to see.

    I want to connect with you! Share your post and I’ll follow! And if it resonates, follow to me as well:)
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  • There was this girl in my class when I was in Junior secondary school.

    Her name is Tope.

    Tope was fine.

    I mean like fine-fine.

    She had this smile that could make a pastor forget his sermon.

    But there was a problem.

    She was Yoruba and I was… let’s just say my Yoruba was on the same level as a toddler who just learned how to say “mama.”

    But I wasn’t going to let a little thing like language stop me.

    I mean, how hard could it be?

    I’d heard Yoruba all my life, especially from my neighbors who loved to gossip in it.

    I figured I could just string a few words together and Tope would be so impressed.

    So she would forget every other guy in our class existed.

    So, I started my journey.

    I practiced for days.

    I even downloaded a Yoruba dictionary app.

    Yes, that’s how serious I was.

    My plan was simple:

    I’d walk up to her, say something smooth in Yoruba, and she’d fall head over heels for me.

    Easy peasy, right?

    The day finally came.

    I saw Tope sitting alone during lunch break and I thought, “This is my moment.“

    I walked up to her as my heart pounding like a talking drum.

    I cleared my throat and put on my most confident face.

    As soon as I got to her, I said: “Mo fe lo si baluwe.”

    The look she gave me was one I’ll never forget.

    Her eyes widened and then she burst out laughing.

    I stood there confused and thought: “what did I say wrong?”

    Until she finally managed to say, “Do you even know what you just said?”

    Turns out, instead of saying, “I want to take you out,” which is what I thought I was saying.

    I had actually said, “I want to go to the bathroom.”

    Yes o!

    I had just told my crush that I wanted to go and use the toilet.

    I wanted the ground to open and swallow me whole.

    Being the kind soul that she was.

    She tried to stop laughing long enough to explain my mistake.

    She even taught me the correct way to say it: “Mo fe gbe e jade.”

    But by then, the damage was done.

    The whole class heard about it and for weeks, people would walk up to me and say, “Mo fe lo si baluwe” before bursting into laughter.

    That day I learnt not to try to be what I’m not just to impress someone.

    If I had just been myself and spoken English.

    I would’ve saved myself a lot of embarrassment.

    Tope later told me she actually liked my confidence even if my Yoruba was a disaster.

    Always be authentic and don’t let fear of looking silly stop you from shooting your shot.

    Happy new week!😋😋

    Good morning!
    There was this girl in my class when I was in Junior secondary school. Her name is Tope. Tope was fine. I mean like fine-fine. She had this smile that could make a pastor forget his sermon. But there was a problem. She was Yoruba and I was… let’s just say my Yoruba was on the same level as a toddler who just learned how to say “mama.” But I wasn’t going to let a little thing like language stop me. I mean, how hard could it be? I’d heard Yoruba all my life, especially from my neighbors who loved to gossip in it. I figured I could just string a few words together and Tope would be so impressed. So she would forget every other guy in our class existed. So, I started my journey. I practiced for days. I even downloaded a Yoruba dictionary app. Yes, that’s how serious I was. My plan was simple: I’d walk up to her, say something smooth in Yoruba, and she’d fall head over heels for me. Easy peasy, right? The day finally came. I saw Tope sitting alone during lunch break and I thought, “This is my moment.“ I walked up to her as my heart pounding like a talking drum. I cleared my throat and put on my most confident face. As soon as I got to her, I said: “Mo fe lo si baluwe.” The look she gave me was one I’ll never forget. Her eyes widened and then she burst out laughing. I stood there confused and thought: “what did I say wrong?” Until she finally managed to say, “Do you even know what you just said?” Turns out, instead of saying, “I want to take you out,” which is what I thought I was saying. I had actually said, “I want to go to the bathroom.” Yes o! I had just told my crush that I wanted to go and use the toilet. I wanted the ground to open and swallow me whole. Being the kind soul that she was. She tried to stop laughing long enough to explain my mistake. She even taught me the correct way to say it: “Mo fe gbe e jade.” But by then, the damage was done. The whole class heard about it and for weeks, people would walk up to me and say, “Mo fe lo si baluwe” before bursting into laughter. That day I learnt not to try to be what I’m not just to impress someone. If I had just been myself and spoken English. I would’ve saved myself a lot of embarrassment. Tope later told me she actually liked my confidence even if my Yoruba was a disaster. Always be authentic and don’t let fear of looking silly stop you from shooting your shot. Happy new week!😋😋 Good morning!
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    Have a lovely day ahead
    Good morning everyone! Have a lovely day ahead
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