Finding a good partner isn’t just about love; it’s about choosing someone who aligns with your values, supports your growth, and brings peace into your life. A good partner isn’t perfect, but they are willing to learn, improve, and build a strong foundation with you.

Look beyond physical attraction and focus on character. A kind heart, a respectful attitude, and emotional maturity matter far more than looks or material wealth. A good partner communicates openly, listens with understanding, and stands by you in both good and difficult times.

Patience is key. Rushing into a relationship out of loneliness can lead to heartbreak. Take the time to truly know someone—observe how they treat others, how they handle challenges, and whether their words match their actions. A person’s true nature is revealed in the small things.

The right partner will not only love you but also inspire you to be better. They won’t compete with you; they will grow with you. They will respect your dreams, value your presence, and bring out the best in you.

Most importantly, be the kind of person you want to attract. Work on yourself, build your confidence, and embrace self-respect. A strong, healthy relationship begins with two individuals who are whole on their own but even stronger together.

Apologizing doesn’t mean you’re weak—it means you value your relationship more than your ego. It takes strength to admit when you’re wrong, to acknowledge your mistakes, and to take responsibility for the hurt you may have caused. Pride may tell you to stay silent, to wait for the other person to make the first move, but love and wisdom teach that healing begins with humility.

A sincere apology has the power to mend broken trust, ease tension, and bring people closer. It’s not just about saying “I’m sorry” but also about showing through actions that you truly regret your mistake and are willing to change. Holding on to grudges, refusing to apologize, or letting ego take control can damage even the strongest relationships.

In marriage, friendships, and family, the ability to apologize and forgive is essential. No one is perfect, and disagreements will happen, but what matters most is how we handle them. A moment of pride can cost years of happiness, while a moment of humility can restore love and peace.

The strongest relationships aren’t the ones without conflict, but the ones where both people are willing to work through their mistakes with understanding, patience, and respect. Apologizing doesn’t make you lose—it allows love, trust, and connection to win.

*_MORNING* *SHOWER!!!_*
*PRAYER DEVOTIONAL*
Shalom! *Child of God,* *according to* *the word of God in* *Rev. 12:11, receive* *grace to overcome* *every* *VISIBLE AND INVISIBLE* *powers of darkness* *working tirelessly to* *bring you down. In* *the name of Jesus* *Christ of* *Nazareth, your matter* *will* *EXPOSE, DISGRACE AND DESTROY* *your* *unrepentant* *enemies* *InJesusName. Jonah* *came out of* *the great fish; Daniel* *came out of* *the Lions den;* *Lazarus came out of* *the grave; you too* *will overcome* *and come out of that* *challenge. Be* *restored, be lifted and* *be blessed* *beyond measure.* *Remain steadfast and* *forever blessed* *InJesusChristName* .
*MuchLove* ❤️❤️❤️.

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I love this wonderful innovation, this is our own African pushing forward, let's support him to grow higher!

There was this girl in my class when I was in Junior secondary school.

Her name is Tope.

Tope was fine.

I mean like fine-fine.

She had this smile that could make a pastor forget his sermon.

But there was a problem.

She was Yoruba and I was… let’s just say my Yoruba was on the same level as a toddler who just learned how to say “mama.”

But I wasn’t going to let a little thing like language stop me.

I mean, how hard could it be?

I’d heard Yoruba all my life, especially from my neighbors who loved to gossip in it.

I figured I could just string a few words together and Tope would be so impressed.

So she would forget every other guy in our class existed.

So, I started my journey.

I practiced for days.

I even downloaded a Yoruba dictionary app.

Yes, that’s how serious I was.

My plan was simple:

I’d walk up to her, say something smooth in Yoruba, and she’d fall head over heels for me.

Easy peasy, right?

The day finally came.

I saw Tope sitting alone during lunch break and I thought, “This is my moment.“

I walked up to her as my heart pounding like a talking drum.

I cleared my throat and put on my most confident face.

As soon as I got to her, I said: “Mo fe lo si baluwe.”

The look she gave me was one I’ll never forget.

Her eyes widened and then she burst out laughing.

I stood there confused and thought: “what did I say wrong?”

Until she finally managed to say, “Do you even know what you just said?”

Turns out, instead of saying, “I want to take you out,” which is what I thought I was saying.

I had actually said, “I want to go to the bathroom.”

Yes o!

I had just told my crush that I wanted to go and use the toilet.

I wanted the ground to open and swallow me whole.

Being the kind soul that she was.

She tried to stop laughing long enough to explain my mistake.

She even taught me the correct way to say it: “Mo fe gbe e jade.”

But by then, the damage was done.

The whole class heard about it and for weeks, people would walk up to me and say, “Mo fe lo si baluwe” before bursting into laughter.

That day I learnt not to try to be what I’m not just to impress someone.

If I had just been myself and spoken English.

I would’ve saved myself a lot of embarrassment.

Tope later told me she actually liked my confidence even if my Yoruba was a disaster.

Always be authentic and don’t let fear of looking silly stop you from shooting your shot.

Happy new week!😋😋

Good morning!