• Again, being too loyal to a boyfriend will stop you from finding your husband.

    Of all the mistakes you'll make in life as a woman, never announce to the public that you have a boyfriend.

    That's one reason many women never get married because what the world hears when you say that is, 'This is the man I'm currently sleeping with.' And this makes you look like 'used goods.'

    It's like men are using you in turns with every new relationship.

    The cheat code is never to announce a man until he has gone the whole distance of marrying you.

    A relationship is an unrealized goal, and as a rule, we don't announce unrealized goals.

    Leave those types of mistakes to fools and those who don't understand the game of life or the fate of women.

    Generally, getting a boyfriend is the easiest thing on earth. If you're carrying meat, how hard is it to get a dog to eat that meat?

    You're highly valuable as a woman, and every man wants to access you for nothing. That is, to become your boyfriend.

    It's actually harder to make one dollar than it is to get a man. To make a dollar, you may need to put in some effort. But to get a man? Just respond to one inbox or remove a contact from your block list.

    You wouldn't announce to the world that you have made one dollar and you feel rich. Would you? So, why are you announcing something cheaper than a dollar?

    A man posting you on his social media is an act of possession or telling other men to keep off from his food. But you announcing him? That's just giving recognition to someone who hasn't earned it yet.

    You're not in the same place as men. Don't be naive.

    Tour biological clock is more sensitive with a definite deadline, which men don't have.

    A man having a girlfriend or wife boosts his social status and opens doors for him.

    For you, a boyfriend closes doors. It disappoints other men when you say you're taken. So you should only say it when you're actually taken.

    One day, you'll be told that your body count is too high just because you announced your previous boyfriends. But the men won't be told that.

    You're not in the same place as a man.

    Your body is seen as a highly coveted sexual commodity. A man's is not.

    And in case you're feeling special that a man is sleeping with you, let me remind you that men have been known to sleep with anything. Women, other men, animals, inanimate objects like mattresses. They will relieve themselves with anything, whether it's their own hands, lotion, or soap.

    Have you noticed that the mentally ill or homeless women on the streets have babies?

    You should keep your body to be enjoyed in marriage. That's the only way to attract honour.

    If you continue giving yourself to brokers under the favourite delusion of many women, 'We're in a serious relationship,' that's why you'll be seen as 'already used up.'

    This is the point: stop giving titles to enquiries. When you're operating your business, do you give your goods to every customer who comes making enquiries? No. You wait until someone pays the price.

    Do the same in your dating. Everything before marriage is enquiries. Never take them too seriously.

    Attend to them all.

    Date them all.

    Give your goods to none. Not your body. Not titles. Not your reputation.

    Again, keep your goals low-key until they're permanent. Including relationships.

    (©️ Benjamin Zulu Global)
    Again, being too loyal to a boyfriend will stop you from finding your husband. Of all the mistakes you'll make in life as a woman, never announce to the public that you have a boyfriend. That's one reason many women never get married because what the world hears when you say that is, 'This is the man I'm currently sleeping with.' And this makes you look like 'used goods.' It's like men are using you in turns with every new relationship. The cheat code is never to announce a man until he has gone the whole distance of marrying you. A relationship is an unrealized goal, and as a rule, we don't announce unrealized goals. Leave those types of mistakes to fools and those who don't understand the game of life or the fate of women. Generally, getting a boyfriend is the easiest thing on earth. If you're carrying meat, how hard is it to get a dog to eat that meat? You're highly valuable as a woman, and every man wants to access you for nothing. That is, to become your boyfriend. It's actually harder to make one dollar than it is to get a man. To make a dollar, you may need to put in some effort. But to get a man? Just respond to one inbox or remove a contact from your block list. You wouldn't announce to the world that you have made one dollar and you feel rich. Would you? So, why are you announcing something cheaper than a dollar? A man posting you on his social media is an act of possession or telling other men to keep off from his food. But you announcing him? That's just giving recognition to someone who hasn't earned it yet. You're not in the same place as men. Don't be naive. Tour biological clock is more sensitive with a definite deadline, which men don't have. A man having a girlfriend or wife boosts his social status and opens doors for him. For you, a boyfriend closes doors. It disappoints other men when you say you're taken. So you should only say it when you're actually taken. One day, you'll be told that your body count is too high just because you announced your previous boyfriends. But the men won't be told that. You're not in the same place as a man. Your body is seen as a highly coveted sexual commodity. A man's is not. And in case you're feeling special that a man is sleeping with you, let me remind you that men have been known to sleep with anything. Women, other men, animals, inanimate objects like mattresses. They will relieve themselves with anything, whether it's their own hands, lotion, or soap. Have you noticed that the mentally ill or homeless women on the streets have babies? You should keep your body to be enjoyed in marriage. That's the only way to attract honour. If you continue giving yourself to brokers under the favourite delusion of many women, 'We're in a serious relationship,' that's why you'll be seen as 'already used up.' This is the point: stop giving titles to enquiries. When you're operating your business, do you give your goods to every customer who comes making enquiries? No. You wait until someone pays the price. Do the same in your dating. Everything before marriage is enquiries. Never take them too seriously. Attend to them all. Date them all. Give your goods to none. Not your body. Not titles. Not your reputation. Again, keep your goals low-key until they're permanent. Including relationships. (©️ Benjamin Zulu Global)
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  • THE FALL: A TALE OF LOST DREAMS

    In the vibrant city of Lagos, a young boy named Ola once shone bright with promise. His academic prowess and boundless energy made him a standout, with dreams of becoming a doctor or engineer. However, Ola's trajectory took a devastating turn when a friend introduced him to Rophynol, a pill that promised relaxation.

    This seemingly innocuous start soon spiraled into a deadly addiction, consuming Ola's life. Codeine and Tramadol followed, numbing his senses and eroding his aspirations. As his grades plummeted and his relationships frayed, Ola's friends, Kemi and Yimi, watched in horror.

    One poignant evening, they confronted Ola about his downward spiral. Kemi's gentle concern and Yimi's blunt warnings fell on deaf ears, as Ola confessed to using substances as an escape from reality.

    The once-bright Ola slowly vanished, replaced by a frail, empty shell. Despite his friends' desperate attempts to intervene, the damage was irreparable. Ola's addiction had taken its toll, and he succumbed to acute liver failure.

    The community was shaken by Ola's tragic demise, serving as a stark reminder of the dangers of substance abuse. His friends now stood by his grave, their hearts heavy with grief and regret.

    Moral Lesson: Drug abuse doesn't just destroy your body; it annihilates your future. Don't let temporary relief obliterate your permanent dreams. Stay away from drugs, those silent killers that erase your potential one day at a time.

    #fiction
    #Names used are not real
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    #lawyer
    #SayNoToDrugsAndAlcohol
    #drugabuseawareness
    THE FALL: A TALE OF LOST DREAMS In the vibrant city of Lagos, a young boy named Ola once shone bright with promise. His academic prowess and boundless energy made him a standout, with dreams of becoming a doctor or engineer. However, Ola's trajectory took a devastating turn when a friend introduced him to Rophynol, a pill that promised relaxation. This seemingly innocuous start soon spiraled into a deadly addiction, consuming Ola's life. Codeine and Tramadol followed, numbing his senses and eroding his aspirations. As his grades plummeted and his relationships frayed, Ola's friends, Kemi and Yimi, watched in horror. One poignant evening, they confronted Ola about his downward spiral. Kemi's gentle concern and Yimi's blunt warnings fell on deaf ears, as Ola confessed to using substances as an escape from reality. The once-bright Ola slowly vanished, replaced by a frail, empty shell. Despite his friends' desperate attempts to intervene, the damage was irreparable. Ola's addiction had taken its toll, and he succumbed to acute liver failure. The community was shaken by Ola's tragic demise, serving as a stark reminder of the dangers of substance abuse. His friends now stood by his grave, their hearts heavy with grief and regret. Moral Lesson: Drug abuse doesn't just destroy your body; it annihilates your future. Don't let temporary relief obliterate your permanent dreams. Stay away from drugs, those silent killers that erase your potential one day at a time. #fiction #Names used are not real @highlight #lawyer #SayNoToDrugsAndAlcohol #drugabuseawareness
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    Have a great day y'all 💝
    Good morning my friends 🥰🥰🥰☺️ Have a great day y'all 💝
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  • Your man when his friends are talking about there loyal and respectful partners 😂
    Your man when his friends are talking about there loyal and respectful partners 😂
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  • He came to propose to me, and died in my hostel

    Jareth came over to my hostel that evening. We ate, laughed, and talked about everything—our future, our plans, the names of our unborn kids. It was perfect.

    By nightfall, he yawned and stretched.

    "Babe, I’ll be leaving soon. I just need to rest a little before heading home. Tomorrow’s a busy day at work."

    "Okay,"

    I smiled, kissing his forehead.

    I let him sleep.

    But at 9 PM, when I tried to wake him, he didn’t move.

    "Jareth?"

    I whispered, shaking him lightly.

    Nothing.

    "Babes? Ademi, Ayanfe mi?"

    I shook him harder.

    "Jareth, wake up!"

    Still nothing.

    I pushed, slapped, screamed—no response. His body was warm, but he wasn’t breathing.

    Then, the real horror set in.

    Jareth was dead.

    My neighbors were gone for the night. It was as if they all planned to go to a party that night.

    I was alone.

    See me, see Kirikiri.

    See court, see jail!

    I grabbed his shoulders, shaking him with all my might.

    "Jareth, please! Don’t do this to me!"

    He didn’t even twitch.

    I pounded his chest. I tried mouth-to-mouth resuscitation. I did everything I had ever seen in a medical drama, but he just lay there, lifeless.

    Then... his phone rang.

    I looked at the screen.

    His mum.

    I froze.

    Then another call—his elder sister. Then another—his younger brother.

    As if they knew. They kept calling.

    My heart pounded so hard it felt like it would explode.

    What would I tell them?

    I panicked.

    I couldn’t call the police. No hospital would accept him without a proper explanation.

    I am finished.

    My stomach churned. I ran outside to throw up in the nearby gutter. I started coughing. I was disoriented.

    Then, his friends started calling too.

    I had to move him.

    But how?

    His body felt heavier than the weight of my sins.

    I dragged him to the car, struggling to lift him inside.

    The boot? No. That was too suspicious.

    I sat him upright in the passenger seat and buckled him in.

    Then, I started the engine.

    As I drove out, the security greeted him.

    "Bros don jonz. He like life. See as he sleep. Bros we greet oh."

    One of them laughed.

    If only they knew.

    I reached the big ditch. Student usually use it as a dumb site.

    I turned off the car and sat there, crying for an hour.

    "Jareth, please wake up. Please, baby. We had plans. Our dream house, our children... we were supposed to grow old together."

    Nothing. I caught myself talking alone. I was beginning to run mad!

    His lifeless body just sat there, unmoving.

    I wiped my tears. I had no choice.

    I opened the car door, went to his side, and pulled his body toward the ditch.

    Then—something small rolled out of his pocket.

    A small box.

    I bent down and picked it up with trembling hands.

    An engagement ring.

    I stopped breathing.

    He came to propose to me.

    That realization shattered my soul.

    I staggered back, the air suddenly too thick to inhale.

    My entire body shook.

    I couldn't do it. I laid on he floor with him, begging him to just wake for some minutes, and propose to me.

    No.

    I had to go back. I had to tell his family the truth. Whatever happened next, I will be ready.

    I wiped my eyes, summoned all my strength, and struggled to lift him back into the car.

    I was almost at my hostel gate when police stopped me.

    They checked and tried to wake him but he didn't.

    "I don't know why fine girl like you will be dating drunkard like this."

    I was nearly ruining mad. How the police didn't noticed was beyond my understanding.

    When I got home, my door was open.

    I knew I locked it.

    Something moved inside. I saw a sharp shadow running in my house.

    My heart should have skipped a beat. But it didn’t. Because I was already dead inside.

    Jareth was gone.

    Whoever was inside could kill me if they wanted.

    I grabbed a wooden plank near the door and stormed in.

    And then—

    UPROAR.

    "SURPRISE!!!"

    My legs buckled.I blinked, confused.

    In front of me stood Jareth’s mum, my mum, my brother, his siblings, his friends— even my neighbours

    All smiling.

    My friends, Helen, Lydia and Johana all opening their wide teeth and holding balloons.

    Then— music started playing.

    A saxophonist emerged from my room, holding a small banner that read:

    "Turn around."

    I slowly turned.

    And there he was Jareth.

    Alive. Smiling. Holding the same ring I had seen by the ditch.

    "Babe,"

    he grinned.

    "You always say nothing scares you. So, I decided to put that to the test. I love you. Please....."

    I didn't bother to wait to hear the last sentence before I collapsed.

    I woke up to laughter and claps.

    Jareth sat beside me, holding my hand.

    "So... will you marry me?"

    he whispered.

    With no strength left to scream or faint again, I nodded.

    "Yes."

    I will forever love him.

    But first...

    I need to kill him.

    The End.
    He came to propose to me, and died in my hostel Jareth came over to my hostel that evening. We ate, laughed, and talked about everything—our future, our plans, the names of our unborn kids. It was perfect. By nightfall, he yawned and stretched. "Babe, I’ll be leaving soon. I just need to rest a little before heading home. Tomorrow’s a busy day at work." "Okay," I smiled, kissing his forehead. I let him sleep. But at 9 PM, when I tried to wake him, he didn’t move. "Jareth?" I whispered, shaking him lightly. Nothing. "Babes? Ademi, Ayanfe mi?" I shook him harder. "Jareth, wake up!" Still nothing. I pushed, slapped, screamed—no response. His body was warm, but he wasn’t breathing. Then, the real horror set in. Jareth was dead. My neighbors were gone for the night. It was as if they all planned to go to a party that night. I was alone. See me, see Kirikiri. See court, see jail! I grabbed his shoulders, shaking him with all my might. "Jareth, please! Don’t do this to me!" He didn’t even twitch. I pounded his chest. I tried mouth-to-mouth resuscitation. I did everything I had ever seen in a medical drama, but he just lay there, lifeless. Then... his phone rang. I looked at the screen. His mum. I froze. Then another call—his elder sister. Then another—his younger brother. As if they knew. They kept calling. My heart pounded so hard it felt like it would explode. What would I tell them? I panicked. I couldn’t call the police. No hospital would accept him without a proper explanation. I am finished. My stomach churned. I ran outside to throw up in the nearby gutter. I started coughing. I was disoriented. Then, his friends started calling too. I had to move him. But how? His body felt heavier than the weight of my sins. I dragged him to the car, struggling to lift him inside. The boot? No. That was too suspicious. I sat him upright in the passenger seat and buckled him in. Then, I started the engine. As I drove out, the security greeted him. "Bros don jonz. He like life. See as he sleep. Bros we greet oh." One of them laughed. If only they knew. I reached the big ditch. Student usually use it as a dumb site. I turned off the car and sat there, crying for an hour. "Jareth, please wake up. Please, baby. We had plans. Our dream house, our children... we were supposed to grow old together." Nothing. I caught myself talking alone. I was beginning to run mad! His lifeless body just sat there, unmoving. I wiped my tears. I had no choice. I opened the car door, went to his side, and pulled his body toward the ditch. Then—something small rolled out of his pocket. A small box. I bent down and picked it up with trembling hands. An engagement ring. I stopped breathing. He came to propose to me. That realization shattered my soul. I staggered back, the air suddenly too thick to inhale. My entire body shook. I couldn't do it. I laid on he floor with him, begging him to just wake for some minutes, and propose to me. No. I had to go back. I had to tell his family the truth. Whatever happened next, I will be ready. I wiped my eyes, summoned all my strength, and struggled to lift him back into the car. I was almost at my hostel gate when police stopped me. They checked and tried to wake him but he didn't. "I don't know why fine girl like you will be dating drunkard like this." I was nearly ruining mad. How the police didn't noticed was beyond my understanding. When I got home, my door was open. I knew I locked it. Something moved inside. I saw a sharp shadow running in my house. My heart should have skipped a beat. But it didn’t. Because I was already dead inside. Jareth was gone. Whoever was inside could kill me if they wanted. I grabbed a wooden plank near the door and stormed in. And then— UPROAR. "SURPRISE!!!" My legs buckled.I blinked, confused. In front of me stood Jareth’s mum, my mum, my brother, his siblings, his friends— even my neighbours All smiling. My friends, Helen, Lydia and Johana all opening their wide teeth and holding balloons. Then— music started playing. A saxophonist emerged from my room, holding a small banner that read: "Turn around." I slowly turned. And there he was Jareth. Alive. Smiling. Holding the same ring I had seen by the ditch. "Babe," he grinned. "You always say nothing scares you. So, I decided to put that to the test. I love you. Please....." I didn't bother to wait to hear the last sentence before I collapsed. I woke up to laughter and claps. Jareth sat beside me, holding my hand. "So... will you marry me?" he whispered. With no strength left to scream or faint again, I nodded. "Yes." I will forever love him. But first... I need to kill him. The End.
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  • Here's a breakdown of key relationship advice for men:
    1. Communication is Key:
    Be an Active Listener:
    Pay attention to your partner's words and body language, and respond thoughtfully, not just reacting.
    Express Your Feelings:
    Share your thoughts and emotions openly and honestly, even when it's difficult.
    Communicate Respectfully:
    Even when disagreeing, maintain respect for your partner's feelings and opinions.
    2. Respect and Trust:
    Respect Your Partner: Value their opinions, needs, and boundaries.
    Build Trust: Be reliable, honest, and dependable.
    Show Affection: Express your love and appreciation regularly through words, actions, and gestures.
    3. Emotional Awareness and Support:
    Be Empathetic: Try to understand your partner's perspective and emotions, even if you don't agree.
    Offer Support: Be a source of comfort and encouragement during challenging times.
    Seek Support When Needed: Don't be afraid to ask for help or advice from your partner or other trusted sources.
    4. Maintaining Individuality:
    Pursue Your Interests: Don't let your relationship consume your entire life; maintain your own hobbies and interests.
    Spend Time Alone: Regular time alone is important for self-reflection and recharging.
    Maintain Friendships: Continue to nurture your friendships with both men and women.
    5. Building a Strong Foundation:
    Set Boundaries: Establish clear boundaries for both yourself and your partner.
    Spend Quality Time Together: Make an effort to connect and create shared experiences.
    Celebrate Each Other: Acknowledge and celebrate each other's accomplishments and milestones.
    6. Seeking Help When Needed:
    Don't Be Afraid to Seek Counsel: If you're struggling in your relationship, don't hesitate to seek professional guidance from a therapist or counselor.
    Communicate Openly: Discuss any problems or concerns with your partner, and work together to find solutions.
    Remember that a healthy relationship requires effort from both partners .
    Here's a breakdown of key relationship advice for men: 1. Communication is Key: Be an Active Listener: Pay attention to your partner's words and body language, and respond thoughtfully, not just reacting. Express Your Feelings: Share your thoughts and emotions openly and honestly, even when it's difficult. Communicate Respectfully: Even when disagreeing, maintain respect for your partner's feelings and opinions. 2. Respect and Trust: Respect Your Partner: Value their opinions, needs, and boundaries. Build Trust: Be reliable, honest, and dependable. Show Affection: Express your love and appreciation regularly through words, actions, and gestures. 3. Emotional Awareness and Support: Be Empathetic: Try to understand your partner's perspective and emotions, even if you don't agree. Offer Support: Be a source of comfort and encouragement during challenging times. Seek Support When Needed: Don't be afraid to ask for help or advice from your partner or other trusted sources. 4. Maintaining Individuality: Pursue Your Interests: Don't let your relationship consume your entire life; maintain your own hobbies and interests. Spend Time Alone: Regular time alone is important for self-reflection and recharging. Maintain Friendships: Continue to nurture your friendships with both men and women. 5. Building a Strong Foundation: Set Boundaries: Establish clear boundaries for both yourself and your partner. Spend Quality Time Together: Make an effort to connect and create shared experiences. Celebrate Each Other: Acknowledge and celebrate each other's accomplishments and milestones. 6. Seeking Help When Needed: Don't Be Afraid to Seek Counsel: If you're struggling in your relationship, don't hesitate to seek professional guidance from a therapist or counselor. Communicate Openly: Discuss any problems or concerns with your partner, and work together to find solutions. Remember that a healthy relationship requires effort from both partners .
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  • April 1st 2025 here I come 🫴
    Happy New month 🙏
    #ValutokTeam
    #Friends
    God Almighty bless and favor us All
    April 1st 2025 here I come 🫴 Happy New month 🙏 #ValutokTeam #Friends God Almighty bless and favor us All
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  • It's dangerous to have jealous people around you. They look at you as a competition while you look at them as family or friends.😎
    It's dangerous to have jealous people around you. They look at you as a competition while you look at them as family or friends.😎
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  • Fellas: 😎

    Your woman telling you about another guy(s) approaching her is nothing to be proud or excited about. She'll tell you about how this guy has been pestering her non stop, despite making it clear that she's in a relationship

    It doesn't make her trustworthy, rather the opposite, it's a red flag. Why? Because that's a manipulation tactic which could mean one of these 3 things

    1. To give you a false sense of security, so she can actually cheat in peace

    2. She's planning or already cheating & wants to see your reaction if you're to find out

    3. She wants you to simp for her, by reminding you that other guys still want her

    It's all bs, if a woman doesn't really want any man approaching her, she'll get rid of him smoothly without you even knowing about it. Her getting involved, is manipulation & she'll only inform you about guys she doesn't really find attractive

    The day she gets hit on by a guy she perceives to be better than you, she'll never tell you till after she's secured him & that's when she'll hit you with one of these lines:

    "I think we need a break"

    "I don't think this is working out, no it's not you, it's me"

    "I think we're better off as friends"

    Never trust a woman's words, no matter how convincing she may be.

    Learn OR perish!!!
    Fellas: 😎 Your woman telling you about another guy(s) approaching her is nothing to be proud or excited about. She'll tell you about how this guy has been pestering her non stop, despite making it clear that she's in a relationship It doesn't make her trustworthy, rather the opposite, it's a red flag. Why? Because that's a manipulation tactic which could mean one of these 3 things 1. To give you a false sense of security, so she can actually cheat in peace 2. She's planning or already cheating & wants to see your reaction if you're to find out 3. She wants you to simp for her, by reminding you that other guys still want her It's all bs, if a woman doesn't really want any man approaching her, she'll get rid of him smoothly without you even knowing about it. Her getting involved, is manipulation & she'll only inform you about guys she doesn't really find attractive The day she gets hit on by a guy she perceives to be better than you, she'll never tell you till after she's secured him & that's when she'll hit you with one of these lines: "I think we need a break" "I don't think this is working out, no it's not you, it's me" "I think we're better off as friends" Never trust a woman's words, no matter how convincing she may be. Learn OR perish!!!
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