I want to write the topic of envy and give you some tools how you can handle it

Envy can be one the most harmful trait people have.

Envy towards someone can make the person cause so much damage for the one jealous of.

I have experienced this in my own life and witnessed and witness how it impacts lives to this very day.

For some reason there are insecurities within the person, or any of us in some stages of our life.

We don’t really see our own value, skills and competences making us to compete towards one another.

We are not created to be equally talented but rather have skills that complement of one another - Creating this beautiful puzzle out of very different shape of pieces.

The envy often come in form of belittling the target and trying to make them feel less than they are.

At times the jealous person in leading position abuse their authority and place of power too - Causing to block opportunities for advancement in your career and hold back on every reward possible you would be entitled with.

Because their biggest fear is to see you advance.

So for the ones in this situation what is crucial is to understand that it is not about you! It is about them and their brokenness. Their flaws in their character.

What you can do is to not accept the lies that these actions and hatred try to cause you. Always remember your value and never turn yourself into one alike because then you will truly loose.

Love yourself and try to love those ones harming you - Because they are the ones suffering and feeling small. Not you!

So cheer up and keep going solid and strong!

You got this! 🦾


♥️ Juudit

#heartwoman #heartteam #leadthroughlove #leadership #personaldevelopment #character #valutok

You don’t have to say ONE WORD to defend YOURSELF or YOUR NAME! Your CHARACTER & your INTERGRITY will speak for you!🔥

TAKE S£X OUT OF THE EQUATION… AND WHAT’S LEFT?

Most men don’t ask themselves this question until it’s too late. They chase a woman, win her over, sleep with her, and suddenly realize she brings nothing else to the table but her body.

Let’s be real: If s£x is the only thing keeping you interested, you’re already losing.

THE HARD TRUTH ABOUT MODERN WOMEN

Most women have been conditioned to believe that their looks are enough. They invest hours in makeup, filters, and gym selfies… but put zero effort into being valuable beyond their physical appearance.

Ask yourself:

Does she inspire you or drain you?

Does she bring peace or problems?

Can she hold a conversation beyond gossip, drama, or trends?

Does she have any skills that benefit your life, or is she just a liability?

Men get blinded by lust, only to wake up stuck with a woman who adds nothing but stress, expectations, and demands.

WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU STOP CHASING SEX?

The moment you take sex off the table, you’ll see women for who they truly are.

You’ll notice how many lack emotional depth.

You’ll see how many can’t hold a conversation that isn’t about themselves.

You’ll realize how few actually bring value to a man’s life beyond their looks.

This is why high-value men choose carefully.

They don’t get hypnotized by a pretty face. They watch how she moves, listens to what she says, and studies what she brings.

If the only thing she offers is her body… she’s replaceable.

THE MINDSET SHIFT YOU NEED

Stop chasing beauty. Start demanding substance.

Stop being impressed by her looks. Start testing her character.

Stop thinking with your emotions. Start thinking with your standards.

A man who controls his desires controls his future. Choose wisely, or pay the price.

Tender-hearted person are often characterized by their innate kindness, compassion, and sensitivity towards others. They have a gentle and caring nature that allows them to empathize with the feelings and experiences of those around them. Let's keep T.A.L.K.ing

"And the clueless Senator Nwaebonyi did not see it coming. He fell so cheaply into the trap. The feminist gladiators are on a war path. They want to prove issues of irrationality, sexual immorality, loss of character, emotional instabilty and so on against the hierarchy of male leadership in the country.
The outcome is so disastrous for the image of the screaming Senator against the more emotionally stable Dr Mrs Oby Ezekwesili.
The Senator's nervous screams resonating hollow with immaturity and dishonour tòld the whole story:"Who are you?" "You look like a wh*re!" "You are a ho*ligan" "You are a sh*me to womanhood!" The difference between the two combatants was crystal clear. That was how best a distinguished Senator of the Federal republic of Nigeria could react to a word of command from an ordinary citizen for him to shut up.

This was also a deja vu. A similar scenario was enacted on the day Senator Natasha Udaghan got her 6 months suspension from the senate. It looks like an emerging classic style of resistance initiated by Natasha Udaghan against phallocentric order in the Nigerian political leadership is sweeping across the women folks.The strategy of pricking the ego of the men in the most unexpected way. To shut them up and kick them hard on the raw nerve of patriarchal pride.
Let's watch out for the women and youths of this generation. There's a sense that the downfall of Nigeria's leadership can be cause by something very innocuous. Something as cheap as testing a leadership's patience, empathy endurance or emotional intelligence.
Meanwhile, I call on those close to Senator Nwaebonyi to tender an unreserved apology to Nigerians for his unruly behaviour on national television.

#Ekene_kwe_m_unu

Men will cheat with a whole ring on their finger, vows made, contracts signed, families built—and you think your boyfriend won’t cheat just because you’re in his profile picture? 😩😩
Baby girl, come here. Lemme give you a hug. 🤗
It’s not about the Instagram posts, the “good morning” texts, or the public displays of affection. Loyalty is a mindset, a choice, a character trait—not a social media status. A man who wants to be faithful will be, whether the world is watching or not.
So don’t get caught up in the aesthetics of a relationship. Pay attention to his actions, his integrity, and how he moves when nobody’s looking. That’s what really tells you if he’s solid. 💯

A man is a minister

Yet he wants to be the governor of his state

He borrows hundreds of billions for his ministry

Yet his eyes are fixed on the FSAC and IGR of his state

A man of exceptional gluttony

He wants to control his old party from his new party

He is in the executive

But he controls the judiciary

And the head of the legislature shines his shoes

His file in the EFCC is filled with atrocities

But he brags about his character

And preaches INTIGRITY

Meanwhile the EFCC pretends he doesn't live in Abuja

Guy is perpetually drunk on exotic spirits

But he can't sit at home and keep his **** indoors

After drinking, he gathers the media to entertain the nation like Kilnt, the drunk

'Ijaw is the minority of minorities'

His ability to lie, manipulate, cheat and bully he calls capacity

He demands feudal obeisance from his proteges

But has trampled on his mentors and benefactors he has thrown them into the gutter

Man is a contradiction of what he says

His position on any issue is determined by naked opportunism

Often his today and his yesterday confuse people

The good thing about him is that he doesn't keep secrets

So in the fullness of time, he will expose all his co conspirators and paint their hypocrisy in bright colours

He doesn't like reading. That's why people suspect that his penchant for reciting crucial court judgments could come from his promiscuous mingling with judges

May he live lon. Because his memoirs, if written under the influence of aged holy water, will wake the dead.

The chapter on state of emergency might have a paragraph that reads like this:

... I told the president, let's arrest the chief judge. So we can do impeachment. But he said no. He said do SOE . I said, Why punish the people. Why punish my people. That other man, the one from Adamawa said security report. He said security report said SOE is better. I had to agree. Then Mr President said he will bring one Yoruba mam from Osun to be Sole Administrator. I said, No no no, Mr President, no...

#Ekene_kwe_m_unu

The Impact of Nollywood Dramas on Today’s Society

There was a time when watching Nollywood dramas was an event in itself. Back then, we gathered in groups, rented movies in parts—Part 1, Part 2, Part 3, sometimes even up to Part 7! Despite the constant battle with NEPA’s unavailability of electricity, we found ways to stay up late into the night, captivated by the gripping stories unfolding on our screens.

These films brought entertainment, suspense, and unforgettable characters. But they also carried something deeper—subtle and sometimes dangerous messages that have, over the years, left a lasting impact on society, especially the youth of today.

From Entertainment to a Dangerous Mindset

In those days, some of the most popular Nollywood storylines revolved around money rituals. Many of us can still remember vividly—scenes of desperate young men visiting herbalists, sacrificing human lives, and then emerging as wealthy businessmen overnight. The actors who played these roles—many of whom are now famous—were so convincing that, for some viewers, fiction blurred into reality.

While Nollywood filmmakers may have intended these movies as cautionary tales, the repeated depiction of ritual killings as a shortcut to wealth seems to have had the opposite effect. Instead of serving as warnings, they planted dangerous ideas in the minds of many young people.

Today, we are living with the consequences.

A Generation That No Longer Believes in Hard Work

I recall a disturbing moment from my school days. I was in my hostel when a fellow student boldly declared, "There’s no legitimate way to make money!" He went on to say, "I go do rituals," as if it were just another career choice. This was a young man, full of potential, already convinced that success could only come through dark and illegal means.

His mindset wasn’t formed overnight. It was shaped by years of watching and hearing the same narrative—money rituals work, and the wealthy must have used them. How did we get here? When did we stop believing in education, skills, and entrepreneurship?

The Role of Nollywood and Social Media

If television had such a powerful influence on past generations, imagine what social media is doing to today's youth. Unlike back then, when we only had movies on VHS or CDs, now, social media bombards young people with content 24/7. And the glorification of quick money, fraudulent lifestyles, and rituals has only worsened.

Many young people no longer aspire to be doctors, engineers, or business owners. Instead, they want to be “big boys” overnight, no matter the cost. And who do they look up to? The influencers flaunting suspicious wealth, the artists singing about blood money, and even movies that still glorify the same themes from the past.

What Can Be Done?

The government must take a stand. Just as traditional media was once regulated, social media must now be monitored to prevent the spread of harmful content.

Nollywood must take responsibility: Filmmakers need to tell stories that promote hard work, innovation, and legitimate success rather than reinforcing the idea that money rituals are the fastest route to wealth.

Social media regulation: Not censorship, but content control to prevent the glorification of fraud and ritual killings.

Educating the youth: Schools and families must play their part in reshaping the narrative. We must teach young people that success comes from persistence, education, and genuine effort—not blood money.


Conclusion

Nollywood has entertained us for decades, but it has also shaped mindsets in ways we never imagined. Now, social media is amplifying those messages even further. If we do nothing, future generations will grow up in a society where hard work is a joke and crime is a normal part of life.

It’s time to change the narrative. It’s time to show that wealth built on sweat and integrity is the only wealth that truly lasts.

Daniel_trader

Choosing a good mother for your kids is more important than choosing a beautiful wife for yourself.

External beauty fades, but internal beauty lasts forever.

Choose wisely for the mother of your kids. Her inner qualities are what truly matter.

Be selective, as her strength and character will shape your family's future.

Be guided❤️